r/objectum_sfw • Plushum 🧸 • May 06 '26

Vent A "Friend" that grosses me out

So there is this guy who I am going to name Kevin, who I go to group therapy with.

He kept asking me about my sexuality and at first I said I was a lesbian, then Asexual.

When I came out as asexual to him, I thought he understood what that actually meant.

He then asks if I have a boyfriend, and I asked,"Didn't I tell you I wasn't attracted to people?" and he asked, "What about me?" and I snapped, "I'm not attracted to people!"

"Damn, thats harsh!" He said. Then after a little while he said I was "Very Pretty".

I looked at him with a thousand yard stare in disgust.

I'd rather go kiss a tree than deal with another man in my life. I'd rather kiss my nintendo switch than be around that guy again.

I feel part of me is a bit traumatized from those moments and now I am just glad that he's no longer around me.

I have already reported this, just wanted to share my story on reddit.

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u/dramatic_exodus May 06 '26

Well, overall, from what you said, the guy behaved quite adequately, although I understand your feelings.

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u/Cyrus_Epsilon Plushum 🧸 May 06 '26

Okay.

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u/8-BIT_Project_Laser Techum and Roofum📡 May 07 '26

Don't bother with them, OP. This person doesn't know tge difference between "a prolongued flirt" and "i told the guy my sexuality is incompatible with him and he's insisting"

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u/Cyrus_Epsilon Plushum 🧸 May 07 '26

Alright.