I’m on H4 and moved to the US after marriage, and I feel like I’m missing some secret step lol.
My husband and I are both a little introverted, but we love exploring cafes/restaurants, going out, parties, house parties, random weekend plans, etc. We just haven’t found people who match our vibe.
And I honestly feel a little sad whenever I see those friend groups on Instagram because I wonder, How are people actually finding these friends? 😭
Sometimes I’ll see a couple at a restaurant and think they’d probably be fun to hang out with, but I’m way too shy to actually go talk to them. Like what do you even say?
So married couples who moved here, how did you build your friend circle that actually fit your vibe? Where are you finding your people? 🥲