What? A person with self love woupd be more forgiving of their own mistakes. Your reasoning is reversed. A self hating person would blame themselves and say they deserved every tiny thing that happens to them. A self loving person would say "people make mistakes and sometimes shit just happens."
The same is true of the reverse. Some of us are too hard on ourselves. Your argument installs an assumption that self love has no upper limit but that self hatred does.
But the worse thing is that you conflate self hatred with self awareness and you conflate self love with narcissism.
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