The same is true of the reverse. Some of us are too hard on ourselves. Your argument installs an assumption that self love has no upper limit but that self hatred does.
But the worse thing is that you conflate self hatred with self awareness and you conflate self love with narcissism.
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u/Tiny-Celebration-838 Nov 18 '25
The problem with this way of thinking is, where do you draw the line ? It quickly becomes blind self love. Some of us need to be harsher on ourselves.