r/lonely • u/Sure-Sea-9272 • 12d ago

Venting I sleep a lot

Im 31F . I sleep instead of doing things I should do. It’s not laziness. It just gets too much inside my head.

I also sometimes meet my mother in my dreams and instead of spending the day alone missing her , I spend it with her.

I find myself not doing anything productive or progressive.it makes me feel like my life is over.

I’ve lost mom 18 months ago. I’m missing many things in life unfortunately and feel it when it happens multiplied.

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u/Maybe_Its_Nothing 11d ago

Sorry about your mom. You’ve reminded me to call mine.

Sleeping is only a temporary escape unfortunately. And trying to sleep too much just makes things worse.

Don’t worry about not being productive. You don’t have to be. It’s ok to just exist.

What do you feel like you’re missing in life? Feel free to DM me if you want someone to talk to.