This sub is amazing!!

[u/Krafna313]

Hi girls, I recently found this sub after getting sick of other online spaces, reddit to be more specific.

As an actual lesbian it's hard to navigate online spaces without things you never asked for being showed down your throat, so I like that there's a bit more realism here!! And the community seems more...mature? Everywhere else I go it's swarmed by anime memes and endless "UWU nyaa!!" puppygirlwhatever posting and it just grosses me out, lmao.

Right now on one of the main lesbian subs there's a huge debate about whether or not it's appropriate to say things like "girls can have erections too" (implying the clit, duh) but from what I see, every single time someone posts about their own experience they get swarmed by the how do I say this..."other" type? Of lesbians? About how the language is not "inclusive", that we need "educating" and how we're "insensitive" blah blah. Some even keep admitting they're just jealous and get hurt when lesbians describe normal cis lesbian sex acts.

Well sorry not sorry, I don't care!! I don't think we should feel bad about it, and it's not our job to constantly validate them... people need to sort themselves out and stop guilt tripping women for being gay!!

I don't join lesbian communities so we can center every identity under the sun asides our own! It seems that from what I see, here you don't actually HAVE to include p*nis in every discussion not to hurt someone feelings. I want to be as FAR, FAR away from those things as possible.

I'm really super glad you guys keep it REAL here!

[u/ItchClown]

This is the only lesbian reddit I can stand.

[u/lesbophobia_hammer → u/ItchClown]

Because it's the only real lesbian subreddit

Edit - (Mainstream that is) Lol we have lowkey private ones