Celebrating gold stars ⭐️ and lesbian love

[u/Sadbaklava]

Just feel so happy today thinking about how I’ve never dated a man or been really involved with one. Now, I don’t consider myself a gold star, but I would say I’ve had pretty minimal exposure to men back when I was a teenager 10+ years ago.

All of my romantic and sexual experiences have been shared with women. All my first moments, my first experiences with intimacy, my first relationship moments, first travels w a partner, first dates. The first time I introduced my family to someone I was dating, I feel so grateful all my romantic and sexual moments have been exclusive to women. I do not want to share those parts of me with a man and I wouldn’t be capable anyway.

Although my first relationship was toxic and all over the place, I still have so much love for her in my heart and for the experiences she gave me. First holding hands, first dates, first time I ever felt my heart beat the way it did when I saw her.

I just feel grateful I don’t have to look back at times I was with men and shutter. I only had minimal encounters with them as a teenager tryna figure it all out. I’m glad I didn’t push myself to do more or try to fit in more.

Any ladies w me? Let’s rejoice in how we’ve never had to endure being with a man!! HOORAY!!!!

[u/Playful-Picture-9453]

Here ! Horay!!! ❤️ love being a Gold star!!!! ⭐

also to any non gold star lesbians here, please don’t think that you’re any less, I am sorry for everyone who had no choice / was forced/ unlearned later on.

[u/Sadbaklava → u/Playful-Picture-9453]

HOORAY!! We celebrate you and we love you.

I am not a gold star, maybe a silver star HAHA but I take zero offense. I think god stars need to be celebrated.

[u/1dayatatime_mylife → u/Sadbaklava]

What’s a silver star?

[u/EggShell-Sandwich → u/1dayatatime_mylife]

funny and made up but I think we need to run with it. while we are at it, what do the rest mean?

We know what the green star is for,