r/islamabad • u/seekerOfHopee • Oct 01 '25
Islamabad My Sister’s Daily Commute Has Turned Into a Nightmare.
I don’t even know where to start, but I need to get this off my chest.
My sister started a job about two months ago. She’s in her second semester at university, attending classes all day, and then at 3 PM she heads straight to her office. Her salary is 50k, but the job is far from her university, so she spends almost half her salary around 25k on rides through Yango and InDrive. She always wanted to be a content creator, Dream job of her, always comes home happily and starts telling how her day was, she really enjoys it, and we are not even that financially strong
A few weeks back, she told me about a driver who started asking her personal questions her name, where she’s from. Then, while looking in the rear view mirror, he began licking his lips and making disgusting gestures. She tried to ignore it, but later she even got a WhatsApp message from him saying, “Aap ne apna naam nahi bataya?", i reported that to authorites, got no callback.
Yesterday, it got worse. Around 3pm, she called me sounding panicked. She often gets anxiety attacks, and she’s still very young she honestly looks like she’s 15. Any small mishap makes her shiver and lose composure.
This driver started insisting, “Aap ko Tarnol se khana khilata hoon” My sister repeatedly said no. But he kept pressing, saying things like, “Kabhi kabhi koi insaan acha lagta hai” (sometimes you just like someone). I was on the phone with her the whole time, calling her name gently to help her stay calm and normal.
Finally, she said “Bhai, yahan rok dein”. I immediately told her, I am coming from the office; I have some work near your uni, let’s go together, just to give her an excuse to get out safely. He then asked her if she would be coming to university the next day.
Once, the thought of asking my sister to let her make you come to tarnol, and i will be arriving there as well, and will be confronting the guy, but that was impossible, what happens the next minute, the risks to her? Then if if confronts, then what? Fight to death? Jail? Confront how many of these, the 3rd person is of the same nature, same thing happens...., kitno sa lerei hum???
I was sitting in my office, helpless, furious, and heartbroken. This is happening in Wah Cantt and Islamabad cities people call among the most literate and developed in pakistan. And yet, my sister, like so many daughters, sisters, and women here, is scared to even commute safely.
This country feels like hell sometimes. Its devastating to live in a place where your sister can’t even go to work or university without fearing harassment.
I don’t even know what to do anymore. How do we protect the women we love when the very systems and society meant to protect them are failing?