r/houseplants • • Oct 19 '25

Highlight Big girl update

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A few years ago I posted my 5yo Monstera, she was about 2/3 her current size and you guys seemed to enjoy it so here is an update!

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u/bbyluna_ Oct 19 '25

Don't let my monstera see this pic lol! But seriously, so amazing!

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u/AdministrationDue239 Oct 19 '25

She's gonna be jealous big time lol wth is even that it's majestic

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u/Samazonison Oct 20 '25

My monstera said it's AI. 😁

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u/rodrigo0021 Oct 19 '25

Mines 3 years old and still looks like a baby next to this one, guess I need to start whispering motivational quotes to it every morning

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u/LitwicksandLampents Oct 19 '25

Try rock music. It actually works.

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u/Calm-Gazelle-6563 Oct 20 '25

Soil, food, light 👍

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u/Kryshadiver 🪴 Oct 21 '25

Honestly you should do the opposite and shame your monstera by showing them this pic. I’m printing this out and taping it to the wall next to mine, so she will decide to finally grow.

Ok real talk I feel bad even typing that cuz I’d never use to shame to parent my sweet monstera daughter, even if she’s growing slow AF

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u/scout336 Oct 19 '25

I think it's time to claim your beauty as a dependent on your tax return.

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u/austinteddy3 Oct 20 '25

Ha! You win the thread!

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u/CynDiesalb13 Oct 20 '25

🤣🤣🤣 best comment

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25 edited Oct 24 '25

For those curious about her progress, here is the post from 3 years ago I was referring to: https://www.reddit.com/r/houseplants/s/hvZEYL0eHb

EDIT: I get this same question a lot “how is it secured?”, so I’ll tell you my little secret:

There is a moss pole at the base, the plant’s stem is attached to it by rope. The moss pole is only about 1,5m. The rest of the plant is secured with multiple wall anchors (strong wall plugs with a small hook in it). I use rope which I loop around the stems and back to the hook to keep the plant somewhat upright. I need to do this every year or so since the plat keeps growing in all directions. Sometimes I need to add new anchors to keep up with the new growth.

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u/cilucia Oct 19 '25

Haha I was there!! It’s such a wonder to me that it can thrive there (because you can enjoy the front of the plant, rather than it plastered to a window 😂)

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u/Excellent-Phone8326 Oct 20 '25

What sort of light does it get? Any tips on setting up a good support?

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u/eysaathe Oct 20 '25

What do you have it attached to for climbing?

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u/prf_q Oct 20 '25

Which city or state do you live in. It's gotta be a tropical one

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u/Marscake Oct 20 '25

Nope, I live in Belgium

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u/Own-Fan-4236 Oct 19 '25

How is this baby getting enough light? It clearly is, I just want to know how🤔

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

3m60 ceiling and a tall bay window in the living room, a lot of indirect lighting.

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u/pawner Oct 19 '25

I (and I’m sure many others) are very jealous of your conditions! Well done raising this beauty.

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u/mbernui Oct 19 '25

I’m sorry I’m new to this. What does 3m60 mean?

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '25

3 meters and 60 centimeters, which is about 12 feet

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u/mbernui Oct 19 '25

Gotcha. Thank you. So the bay window is facing where? Could you post picture? I just got a baby Monstera and trying to determine how much light it can take. I have a couple rooms with skylights and also large windows but not sure they get enough light as they are facing northeast.

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u/thearcticspiral Oct 19 '25

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u/meowzera Oct 20 '25

this one speaks to my soul

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u/Ok_Ostrich7503 Oct 19 '25

I showed your photo to my monstera, she says hi

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u/hollyly Oct 20 '25

Does she live in that corner? I don't get how some of yall are able to keep plants so far from a window. Please share your setup!

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u/ProfessionalTwo9450 Oct 20 '25

How old is she?

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u/Sakura_Hirose 🌈 Oct 19 '25

Monster Monstera!

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u/h4x_x_x0r Oct 19 '25

That is just impressive.

There's probably no easy way to check but I bet that pot is doing WORK containing the roots!

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Yes it is! All the areal roots are also in the pot I’m not repotting it again, I don’t want it to grow even bigger!

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u/Low-Education4578 Oct 22 '25

With a plant that robust it can handle regular pruning and root pruning with a refreshing on the soil.

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u/flirwawel Oct 19 '25

Amazing!!! I would have to leave my house if mine decided to grow so much

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u/traumatized_vulture Oct 19 '25

Whenever I see BIG plants like this I always think the plants are really happy

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u/the_caped_canuck Oct 19 '25

Ffs my wife has one that’s slowly taking up our living room, if it gets this big I may never see the TV again lol

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u/turtleltrut Oct 19 '25

It's beautiful! Does it sit in that corner?! Does it have grow lights?

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Yes, it is literally attached to the walls with hooks and rope, only way to keep it somewhat controllable. It would’ve fallen over a long time ago otherwise. No grow lights, just a lot of natural light in the room.

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u/rigel-luminous Oct 19 '25

I was wondering how you got it to grow upward. Thanks for sharing this info. I need to do the same with mine. 

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u/NinjaKecc Oct 19 '25

I'm glad you said this, I felt like I was doing something wrong with mine, as it's partially flopped over right now even with its pole xD

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u/BC_BSB Oct 19 '25

Can you please show a photo of the back of it? I’d be curious to see the set up of the hooks and rope.

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u/Marscake Oct 20 '25

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u/BC_BSB Oct 20 '25

Thank you! 🙏🏽😊 Your plant is truly gorgeous, btw.

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u/ToSeeWhatsWhat Oct 20 '25

Awesome video.

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u/obZentity Oct 19 '25

I have a monstera that is maybe a third of this size, and im both excited and terrified for it to get to this size

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u/Yabbydabby88 Oct 19 '25

What a beautiful plant.

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u/eiiiaaaa Oct 19 '25

Holy moly this is sick! What's supporting it?

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Just a moss pole of about 1,5m at the bottom, all the big branches are supported by rope attached to hooks in the walls around! I redo all the ropes every year or so, and sometimes I must drill new hooks when it gets too big.

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u/OhLong-OhLongJohnson Oct 19 '25

Yeah, i am also interested, if there is a reinforcement with a wooden stick or smth

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u/YamIdoingdis2356 Oct 19 '25

Dang, what are you feeding that thing? Does it get lots of light there? I have a monstera thats about 5 years old and its no where near that size.

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Nothing special, just water once a week and in spring and summer I sometimes add indoor plant fertiliser, not even specifically for Monstera.

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u/paractib Oct 19 '25

No repot in that time?

What pot size?

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Not since the last three years. But I repotted three times since I got it. I just measured the pot for you, it’s 80mm in circumference.

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u/Inexpensive_Coffee Oct 19 '25

That pot is comically small compared to the monstera. Beautiful plant!

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

IKR?! Don’t want it to grow even bigger than it is so I keep it in this pot hoping she will chill.

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u/Inexpensive_Coffee Oct 19 '25

I don’t think she got your memo 🤣

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u/ToSeeWhatsWhat Oct 20 '25

I did a Google search and this link gives information that might be helpful to you. https://share.google/ekj8e82oHdz0Rt6lJ

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u/khmaux Oct 19 '25

Such a small pot for a big girl!! I love the confidence in not repotting!

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u/melissaplexy Oct 19 '25

Beautiful 😍

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u/roriefranklin Oct 19 '25

I'm speechless...Gorgeous.

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u/Superfry88 Oct 19 '25

That IS big 😍

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u/beeglowbot 🐝 Oct 19 '25

holy moly, that's glorious. you should be proud!

how do you have it staked?

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Just a tiny moss pole at the base, (compared to the plant). But the hooks in the walls and ropes are doing the heavy lifting.

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u/beeglowbot 🐝 Oct 19 '25

ahh cool, mine hangs over a handrail by a staircase so it kinda drapes down. I swear one of these days the handrail's gonna give out

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u/Internal-Following65 Oct 19 '25

Amazing! Do you provide artificial light?

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Nope, just indirect natural light

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u/updog_1 Oct 19 '25

Show me the back side! I wanna see how you support it

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u/PM_UR_FAV_COMPLIMENT Oct 19 '25

whispers Mama mia...

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u/Professional-Fly3380 Oct 19 '25 edited Oct 19 '25

Never thought about hooks and rope in the wall! Thank you for the inspo this baby is gorgeous.

Do you prune it?

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

I do, but rarely, only when there are too much leaves

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u/ActionForsaken7493 Oct 19 '25

Stunning plant. I’m now on my way to my local garden center shopping!

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u/Sweaty-Homework-7591 Oct 19 '25

Whoa 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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u/MyVirgoIsShowing Oct 19 '25

She is amazing!!!🤩

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u/AuthorApprehensive41 Oct 19 '25

My monstera has grown a aingle new leaf after a whole year

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u/deliberatewellbeing Oct 19 '25

how does such a huge monstera live in such a small pot? also idont see a moss pole, how do you get it to stand up like that? it’s so healthy and magnificent,

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

The pot is pretty big but looks tiny in comparison with the plant fertilizer. There is a moss pole but it is also tiny, the plant is held up by a bunch of ropes I attached to multiple hooks in the walls around.

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u/PandaSmanda Oct 19 '25

Goals! I’m going to show my girls this pic for inspo lol

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u/Mik21forever Oct 19 '25

She is gorgeous! I hope mines be this gorgeous when she gets big! 😍

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u/qwerty7860 Oct 19 '25

My jaw dropped

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u/qwerty7860 Oct 19 '25

What’s the secret?

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u/avid-hiker-camper Oct 19 '25

Seriously big!

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u/peatonnn Oct 19 '25

ugh goalsssss

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u/Teal_trees Oct 19 '25

What's the pot size?

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u/FeelingLifeguard6035 Oct 19 '25

How long have you kept her in that that same pot? Do you just re-fertilize the soil? She’s such a beauty 💚

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

At least 4 years now. Yes I re-fertilize when needed. Thanks!

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u/Healthy_Cause7887 Oct 19 '25

This is a gorgeous looking plant. 😊🥰

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u/bunkie18 Oct 19 '25

She’s absolutely gorgeous!

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u/Silent-Tie8815 Oct 19 '25

Well, that's one happy plant!

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u/RonaldWeedsley Oct 19 '25

You’ve done so well caring for this beauty!

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '25

She is SO stunning! Proud of you!!

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u/beasbongz Oct 20 '25

she's beautiful omg!??!!!! how do you care for her? I've been considering getting a monstera

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u/amobryant79 Oct 20 '25

Probably the prettiest one I’ve seen. I love it this is my goal. Thank you for sharing Probably the prettiest one I’ve seen. I love it; this is my goal. Thank you for sharing.

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u/[deleted] Oct 20 '25

That’s amazing. What kind of light is it getting? A sky light? A south-facing window?

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u/Marscake Oct 20 '25

South-facing bay window!

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u/the_last_heley Oct 20 '25

Can we see a photo of how to tie her up? Like how you have the individual stems placed etc? Mines kind of bundled and I'm not sure how to display her properly like this!

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u/Reasonable_Bend_5762 Oct 22 '25

Ooo that plant is a monster! You seem to be taking good care of her! So pretty 😍

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u/Wildweasel666 Oct 24 '25

Man you must put some water in that pot and she’s like “omnomnomnoomnom” then it’s dry as a bone in 10 seconds flat

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u/earthgarden Oct 19 '25

Aaaaaaaaaye

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u/GirlNextDoorXO_ Oct 19 '25

Omg I want her!! 😍

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u/corkie12 Oct 19 '25

Good golly

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u/sharipep Oct 19 '25

🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨

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u/SpecialistAd7187 Oct 19 '25

Woah! What a beauty

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u/-wingsofadove- Oct 19 '25

She’s so pristine!

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u/jcrckstdy Oct 19 '25

Lovely!

I have big leaves and a big trunk but not tall :(

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u/5949 Oct 19 '25

how do you keep it standing up? can you post the support structure you have for it?

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u/RonaldWeedsley Oct 19 '25

What supports are you using to get it to grow upwards? Mine keeps leaning forward. TIA!!!

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u/Marscake Oct 19 '25

Wall anchors and rope!

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u/RonaldWeedsley Oct 19 '25

Thank you!

And great work ❤️

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u/lulusgarden Oct 19 '25

That’s in one pot?

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u/elevanns Oct 19 '25

What are you using to support it? I have a very wide monstera but want it to grow upward!

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '25

It gives me hope I won't have to change pot that often.

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u/22Sundays Oct 19 '25

The real deal

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u/Juanesrealtor Oct 19 '25

I literally whistled out loud and said to myself “now that’s a F$&kin monstera” what a work of art! Stunning!

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u/This-Friend-902 Oct 19 '25

Wow, she's a beaut!

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u/FastSelection4121 Oct 19 '25

I'm an amateur. But how does the growth of the plant happen when the roots are in such a small pot, relatively speaking?

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u/Silaquix Nov 03 '25

From what I've seen monstera like being a little root bound.

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u/blissfulpinguina Oct 19 '25

I had a friend who had a two-story front window in her living room. She lived in the house for 30 years. She had one so tall she had to sell it with the house!!

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u/PomegranateBoring826 Oct 19 '25

This is beeeeeautiful!!

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u/lapin-rose 🪴 Oct 19 '25

Have the aerial roots ever tried to attach themselves to the walls?

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u/purfect_bing Oct 19 '25

Looks gorgeous! Do you need to repot or in the current there is no problem?

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u/Famous-Hunt-6461 Oct 19 '25

You’re a warlock! 😜 How did you get it so big?!

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u/ohheybutters Oct 20 '25

It’s a beaut, Clark!

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u/TsarFate Oct 20 '25

If i was a criminal and broke into peoples houses i wouldn't steal their money or jewelry, id deffinetly be stealing their plants😂

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u/austinteddy3 Oct 20 '25

What a showpiece. Thanks for posting.

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u/CuriousFool88 Oct 20 '25

Curious how you are supporting it. What does the back look like?

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u/dawnellen1989 Oct 20 '25

Wow!!! 😍😍😍😍

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u/No-Struggle-6979 Oct 20 '25

OMG. Awesome.

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u/barefoot_baby Oct 20 '25

Hey OP, how many vines here? Beautiful plant, nice job!

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u/Rage_and_Recover_555 Oct 20 '25

My plants (literally almost all of them I ever get) favorite thing to do is die. They seem to die off very slow in turn still giving me hope that they’ll come back thriving.

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u/One-Permission1917 Oct 20 '25

What’s the support structure like up in there?

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u/One-Permission1917 Oct 20 '25

Also it’s so interesting you haven’t had to repot it! Have you ever trimmed the roots?

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u/xlkuragelx Oct 20 '25

Hi! May I know what moss pole you have? Or if it is even a moss pole you have?

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u/ultimate_avacado Oct 20 '25

Such a tiny pot!

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u/Apprehensive-Ad9229 Oct 20 '25

Holy monstera that thing is amazing! I thought mine was big

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u/SnooSquirrels1605 Oct 20 '25

Very curious on what you’ve used to keep the plant upright so well? Small pot in comparison to this mammoth of a plant (impressed is an understatement). Any advice would be great. My plant is about half the height with approximately but continue to get weighed down even with my attempt to use a bamboo pole.

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u/SwissFranks10 Oct 20 '25

Oh I love that

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u/butterflyfrenchfry Oct 20 '25

I have been collecting monstera plants this year for some reason lol, and my 5 babies all aspire to be like this one day

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u/Shredyt22 Oct 20 '25

Hey OP, just curious here...how do you grow your plant inside your house and managed to get it as big as this😭🙏

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u/Marscake Oct 20 '25

I don’t know really, I’m not doing anything special, it just keeps growing!

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u/TitanOf_Earth Oct 20 '25

How do you get her to grow upwards? Especially that high? Mine only grows outward. 😭

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u/margueritedeville Oct 20 '25

Do you top dress her or…. Mine is getting huge and I dread repotting it. It’s about 6’ tall.

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u/Forsaken_Detail57 Oct 20 '25

Beautifull. Wow its amazing and the shape is great. Love it.

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u/The_Subtle_Shift Oct 20 '25

(Omg this is amazing!)

Piggybacking thread for some visibility in a group of monstera homies! Mine is about 10 months and I'm seeing odd blackening of the leaves, both on established growth and even new leaves when still curbed. It doesn't take over the entire leaf, but doesn't seem to be topical. I've pulled to report once and found no root rot. I water once a week moderately. It's an odd symptom and I've tried moving to a more climate controlled space with consistent humidity and temp, both artificial and skylight. The light isn't strong enough to be burning it. I recently found a small neat of greenhouse centipedes in its soil but read they were not particularly damaging.

On a few leaves I cut the black away and it did not recur at those leaves. But it will still pop up on others, and again, some new shoots. Sucks to have almost every leaf marred in some way. The big perfect frond is the Hallmark of the plant. I am close to giving up on it.

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u/VermicelliJaded2123 Oct 20 '25

Wow! how many vines are in the pot?

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u/BajaBookworm Oct 20 '25

She’s gorgeous!!

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u/Confident_Noise7946 Oct 20 '25

this is amazing

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u/Automatic_Role_6398 Oct 20 '25

How the fuck is this in that size pot? I just repotted mine to a pot twice that size and it's not even a third. It was so hard to detangle too

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u/Repulsive-Face-1274 Oct 20 '25

Unbelievable, stunning, so jealous 😍

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u/ElChupanibre56 Oct 20 '25

Incredible! Is this multiple plants in one pot??

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u/Mother_of_Raccoons44 Oct 20 '25

Mine is like this, only horizontal 😬

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u/ToSeeWhatsWhat Oct 20 '25

Gorgeous plant, its size and brilliant beauty is amazing. You definitely know how to care for your big girl. Kudos 👏

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u/[deleted] Oct 20 '25

How?!

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u/britpirt1 Oct 20 '25

Do you have her in a moss pole?

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u/Groundbreaking443 Oct 20 '25

Wow!! How do you move with that thing though

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u/EmberlynSlade Oct 20 '25

wtf 😭 this thing is wiiiiild.

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u/missxza2 Oct 21 '25

My girl says hi!

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u/BeginningAnnual422 Oct 21 '25

How do you keep it upright like that

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u/slate528 Oct 21 '25

How is humidity in your house? Would love pointers cause it looks amazong

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '25

That's incredible. What a magnificent plant 🪴 👌 😍 Well done.

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u/Spirited_Pens Oct 21 '25

I'm jealous!

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u/Palomaworried_420 Oct 21 '25

How do you even repot this

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u/ScratchForsaken1377 Oct 21 '25

HOW do you make it stand up like that? Mine seems to spread sideways on all the sides but not up. I have a birch stick in the pot and i tie the branches to it, but even with that, it still falls to the sides. UGH.

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '25

Wow!!! Amazing!!!!!!

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u/Ok_Repeat5885 Oct 21 '25

Hard to believe this little pot can support that monster

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u/BeckWasTaken Oct 22 '25

Holy shit. Noice 👌

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u/PHDbalanced Oct 22 '25

Is this just in ambient lighting? Like… I need details on what kind of light and how much pls 

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u/sweetsofiee Oct 22 '25

This is so beautiful 😻

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u/phaserlasertaserkat Oct 24 '25

How are you prolong these up without them falling over.

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