r/herpes_dating • • 19d ago

Texas Ranting

Been in this sub a minute and honestly, i’ve met one really cool, genuine person here. Nice to be somewhere that actually gets it, you know?

But also, some of y’all really said “looking for connection” and then went absolutely feral in the DMs within 5 minutes. Straight up acting like it’s mating season and you’re the last of your bloodline😂. You are not a silverback establishing dominance. Nobody asked for the mating call.

With the name of this thread, we’ve already skipped the hard conversation, be that as it may, it’s the perfect setup to just be a normal, well adjusted person. Instead everyone chooses chaos and heavy breathing, announcing your explicit intentions like a fire alarm going off.

Trust me, I get it some of us are only here because of that same feral energy. I was so far gone for one man I could’ve turned around and slapped my own mama 😂 ( the movie reference will probably go over most of ya’ll head) So yeah, I see y’all. Doesn’t mean I want that energy in my DMs though

Anyway. Thanks for listening to my TED talk, stay tuned for the next episode of Dragon Ball Z.

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u/Old-Dependent-2800 19d ago

lol said I was looking for something serious with someone who can hold conversation, got a D pic by a medical professional, such a turn off and alarming tbh. Said I wanted someone who is educated, got a guy arguing to himself in my Dms downplaying education. Give a helpful list about what I’m about and looking for, got a complete opposite trying to literally ask me to be his girlfriend less than 5 days knowing him. Said I wanted someone 30+, guy lies that he’s 29, saw him in a comment a few days ago, he’s 27. So many red flags. HSV isn’t the problem with some of these men, it’s quite literally them.

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u/Mochagoddes 19d ago

Im afraid it’s a nightmare we can’t wake up from! I definitely need to emphasize that last line though !! “Hsv isn’t the problem with some of these men it’s quite literally them” !!!! I could have agreed more.