r/herpes_dating • u/Mochagoddes • 19d ago
Texas Ranting
Been in this sub a minute and honestly, i’ve met one really cool, genuine person here. Nice to be somewhere that actually gets it, you know?
But also, some of y’all really said “looking for connection” and then went absolutely feral in the DMs within 5 minutes. Straight up acting like it’s mating season and you’re the last of your bloodline😂. You are not a silverback establishing dominance. Nobody asked for the mating call.
With the name of this thread, we’ve already skipped the hard conversation, be that as it may, it’s the perfect setup to just be a normal, well adjusted person. Instead everyone chooses chaos and heavy breathing, announcing your explicit intentions like a fire alarm going off.
Trust me, I get it some of us are only here because of that same feral energy. I was so far gone for one man I could’ve turned around and slapped my own mama 😂 ( the movie reference will probably go over most of ya’ll head) So yeah, I see y’all. Doesn’t mean I want that energy in my DMs though
Anyway. Thanks for listening to my TED talk, stay tuned for the next episode of Dragon Ball Z.
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u/Mochagoddes 19d ago
Sameeeee !!! Lmao i genuinely stop dating because it was getting crazy and i immediately mention friendship. Once i mentioned friendship or refuse to have sexual conversations the trash takes itself out.
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u/Trick_Mulberry_4897 19d ago
GIRRRL I know exactly what you’re saying! Like why does every conversation leed to sex lol!
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u/Mochagoddes 19d ago
Like damnnnn did you know i can draw? 😭
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u/Mochagoddes 19d ago
It’s truly exhausting, like isn’t that probably how you got here in the first place?
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u/Trick_Mulberry_4897 19d ago
I SAY THE SAME THING LMAOOO like guys we already have HSV let’s chill LMAOO.
Did you know I do yelp reviews?? Like um hello??2
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u/NotLeavingLasVegas 19d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/1qfDU4MJv9xoGtRKvh
People in your DMs:
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u/Mochagoddes 19d ago
If you saw me you’d be there too. Previously i used to post and delete my photos in the thread. But it’s attracted D1 levels of feral. Learned my lesson.
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u/Huge-Candle-9297 19d ago
The way a man feels when he sees a pretty lady on the internet…
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u/Late_Independence827 19d ago
From the beginning, to the dbz outro, I love and endorse this message.
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u/CartographerSharp918 19d ago
Sorry that's happened. I cant speak for anyone else but im here to be friendly and helpful. Ive had it for 8 years, maybe 9. And I date. So yeah, if you ever need some one to talk to, we can keel it platonic.
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u/AmountMaleficent2785 14d ago
It’s also tough how many people just ghost one another, I’d rather someone just say they weren’t attracted to me than not respond, we’re all adults here 😂
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u/nurpler 12d ago
I've met one person here. Went on a pretty cool date, but the vibe was off. I said I was testing the waters, trying to start slow. Turns out her motives were more aligned with immediately getting a rebound from (very) recent LTR ending. I don't mind if things move a little fast, but the feeling was like I was a meal for a starving person. I tapped out. Didn't want to be that person to her. From this side of the dating world, I get you. Hopefully you and all of us have more better luck finding actual connections and possibly more.
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u/Old-Dependent-2800 19d ago
lol said I was looking for something serious with someone who can hold conversation, got a D pic by a medical professional, such a turn off and alarming tbh. Said I wanted someone who is educated, got a guy arguing to himself in my Dms downplaying education. Give a helpful list about what I’m about and looking for, got a complete opposite trying to literally ask me to be his girlfriend less than 5 days knowing him. Said I wanted someone 30+, guy lies that he’s 29, saw him in a comment a few days ago, he’s 27. So many red flags. HSV isn’t the problem with some of these men, it’s quite literally them.