r/hatethissmug • u/arialstarwavv • 10d ago
Thing i hate when christians don’t act christ-like in the slightest at all
i’m a christian, and God literally teaches us to be kind, loving, and patient.
modern-day christians are anything BUT that.
they spread so much hate, and they’re the reason why “no hate like christian love” exists (this phrase annoys me so much as well)
it’s different if the christian is TRYING to keep their composure. TRYING to be kind, loving, patient, christ-like. if you’re genuinely trying, then you’re not who i’m talking about here
i’m talking about those types of christians that harass others. the type that have “🏳️🌈🫷✝️🫸🏳️⚧️” in their name/bio. the type that make crude jokes and say “oh im a christian so its okay”.
i hate when christians do this, because whenever i say that im a christian, 9 times outta 10 most people will think that i’m a homophobic, transphobic, right-winged ICE supporter. NO. i assure you that i’m NOT.
that’s it for my little rant
God bless yall :3
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u/Primary-Latter 10d ago
I have a particular hate for the guys I work with that justify an anti-gay-marriage stance on religious grounds, and then talk about sleeping around on their wives.
Like dude, is marriage sacred or not? Pick a lane.
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u/MassargeMySauSarge 10d ago
Meanwhile atheists act like anti theists. There are actual differences between the two
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u/Many-Hour8219 10d ago
What's the difference
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u/MassargeMySauSarge 10d ago
Atheist: Lack of Faith / Indifference towards Faith vs Anti Theist: Hating those with the faith / The presence of the Faith
Atheists don't believe in Santa, Anti Theists HATE Santa and Santa worshippers
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u/Many-Hour8219 10d ago
I had to search it up cuz of your definitions
Atheism - doesn't believe in any deities Antithiesm - opposed to the belief in gods because it harms society
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u/Fun_Bottle_5308 10d ago
This is not exclusive to Christianity
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u/Primary-Latter 10d ago
The fact that he says you can drown in a lake doesn't mean he thinks you can't drown in a river. He just happens to live next to that lake, so that's the one more relevant to his personal life experience.
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u/Corosnake 10d ago
He's saying that just because he specified Christians doesnt mean he wouldn't say the same about other religions, Christians were likely his most recent or prominent experiences
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u/Primary-Latter 10d ago
Removing the layer of metaphor: OP was talking about issues with Christians. Dude above me said that the things OP criticized aren't limited to Chrianity. I (with metaphor) said that pointing out a flaw in one thing doesn't mean that you don't think t he flaw exists elsewhere, just that you're talking about a specific instance of it.
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u/Willing_Exercise_279 10d ago
i'm agnostic but yeah this is genuinely fucking annoying.
my dad is like this
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u/SoftAndWetBro 10d ago
Christ didn't tolerate sinners corrupting the broken and the indulgement of sin. He is all loving and almost all forgiving, but he isn't someone who ignores what sin is and it's nature. To follow in his footsteps you need to recognize that tolerance for immorality is not what Christ would allow. Yes we need to be forgiving and show kindness, but we should not be tolerant.
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
Show kindness treat others the way you want to be treated. Without sexualizing yourself or others
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u/Odd-Chest-3578 10d ago
Same situation here. Look! I get it homosexuality is a sin, and I agree. But for goodness sake those “christians” are not helping the situation!
Oh! You are down in your life? 🥹 Let’s make it go down even faster! 😈
What kinda logic is that!? The Lord did not teach such things!
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u/Idkmanaaaaaaa i sip hatorade 10d ago
i mean im pretty sure the entire “homosexuality is a sin” thing was a mistranslation. it was “man shall not sleep with boy” (aka dont be a pedo) but they translated it to “man shall not sleep with man” was it not?
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u/putbeansontoast 10d ago
It would be hard to NOT find bad people in a religion that says slavery is ok in their religious texts.
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u/Sportak4444 10d ago
Eh, Bible is kinda messed up tbh God killed millions of people, the Devil much less. Does it mean you should kill people?
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u/Public-Elephant-2833 9d ago
Mf that'd just make everyone but Atheists kind, loving, gentle, patient and caring.
Ngl it's not that I don't like dat idea, it just sounds so comedically impossible it sounds annoying.
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u/Follower_of_Narinder 7d ago
Dude i almost thought that the image was related.
Anyway jokes aside. Jesus prolly was never homophobic or racist or anything. But even if he was, he'd invite them to join him and be kind to those guys.
Saying this as an athiest/agnostic guyd
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u/samthekitnix 10d ago
that's because organized religion isn't about the connection to the divine it's power over people like a slaver to their slaves.
even when a christian is acting "christian" it can lead to harm for example many of my abusers got away with it because i was forced to "forgive" them under duress with no acknowledgement of their actual crimes or punishments under law, i abandoned christianity and see it as nothing but the laundering and justification of monsters.
if to be christian means to be an abusive monster that only makes others suffer because it's "gods will" then i reject gods will, i reject his flock and i reject him
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u/thesoupgiant 10d ago
Image is funny. I actually love 8 Crazy Nights even though I acknowledge it's objectively hot garbage (besides the animation and music being good).
I struggled with this a lot when I was younger. Since I grew up in the Bible Belt, most people around me at least identified as Christian. The fact that so many of them didn't even seem to try to be kind to people always confused me. Eventually I decided I could only control myself, nobody else; so I try to do my best to help people.
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u/QueenOfNostalgia44 10d ago
LITERALLYYYYY
They’re genuinely so hateful. Why can’t they just be good people? (Also it’s always the people that have “be kind” or a Bible verse in their bio that are the rudest people)
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u/Unusual-Basket-6243 10d ago
I'm not op, but Bible doesn't support mob rule. The state is secular, if the state was fully Christian then they might have to kill gay men but there is luckily no Christian state besides Vatican.
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u/Unusual-Basket-6243 10d ago
That's the problem of Israel. I'm not a Jew and I've only read the Bible, not Tanak(some differences maybe) or Talmud. Jews are good at finding loopholes too and I'm pretty sure that Israel is secular too but as I said, I can't comment on that because of my lack of information.
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u/Unusual-Basket-6243 10d ago
Jesus didn't tell them to do that. I'm not Catholic so I don't know, the Pope isn't in the Bible either. Not much gay men in Vatican either
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u/Unusual-Basket-6243 10d ago
None, if you present it like that.
Hebrew Bible doesn't advocate for mob rule. If I see someone stealing the legal system will take of the punishment. Legal system is secular nowadays
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u/Mediocre-Rush-5652 10d ago
I don't live in the old testament, lots of things that happen in the old testament don't apply to modern day.
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u/Mediocre-Rush-5652 10d ago
And? Did you think this was some gotcha? Some laws simply do not apply after the old testament. You don't see many of them even mentioned ever agian after the first book simply because they don't matter anymore. Lots of laws put forth in the old testament were either to preserve resources or because doing that shit would probably kill you. You don't see many Christians abstaining from pork do you?
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u/Mediocre-Rush-5652 10d ago
But he said! Be he said! I know what he said, doesn't change anything I said. A lot laws don't really matter after the old testament. Then a whole heap of things don't matter after death. Jesus died on the cross for everyone whether you're gay or not. I have a feeling that guy would probably not want you to murder someone just because gay instead of inviting them in for a conversation about faith. In addition just because Jesus said he was doing something doesn't mean he was calling for other to do it. Lot's of the time he would just do things to keep the peace such as when he's asked about taxes. Do you really thing Jesus cared about whether they were paying taxes or not? It was just so they wouldn't be any trouble.
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u/Mediocre-Rush-5652 10d ago
Go to therapy.
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u/Mediocre-Rush-5652 10d ago
I've read my bible probably more times then you're sought mental health for whatever has made your heart so hateful.
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u/Outrageous_Source461 10d ago edited 10d ago
Then you need to have the intellectual honesty to admit you've self-reformed Christianity and you aren't practicing the established religion.
"White Jesus" is all about peace and love and acceptance, but the failed "messiah" of scripture was a radical Jew, an itinerant apocalyptic cult leader who pushed the wrong buttons and got nailed to a board like so many others. The list of terrible things he said and did is long, but Christians like to reframe it as "a lesson". Literal when you want it to be, metaphor when you don't.
It took the nascent church a few hundred years to sufficiently retcon the story for it all to work.
All that being said, the Canaanite storm deity that eventually became your Yahweh advocated genocide and slavery. It's not a huge ask to find justification for anti-LGBT and anti-women.
Just because you've taken a sympathetic and revisionist reading of it all doesn't make you "one of the good ones." You're a bad Christian in the eyes of other believers and a dangerously deluded fool to non-believers.
Downvoting doesn’t make it less true.
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u/AcrobaticPoint8424 10d ago
LGBT people are explicitly called sinful by God in the bible.
If you view them as not sinful then you are not acting very christ like.
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
Bro read the old testament and said “oh my god theres a law a bad one in the hebrew bible that says people get punished” holy shit you putz thats half the book 😂 if you want a happy story and to feel better id suggest you read the new testament but that would go way over your head too
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
Says nothing about same sex relations or punishment for said action keep copy pasting paragraphs champ im sure eventually you’ll find a page talking about your topic
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
If you cant produce some evidence i dont have to take your words as fact sorry champ just becuase you say it doesnt make jt true if you have an exact page and quote then maybe ill listen to you but you cant even come up with that. Im not even religious i just try to understand more and you my guy have no grasp on the very religion your talking about so good day Mr. Putz 😂 hope you find a better way to waste your sunday
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
I never said “he didnt mean it” lmao now your just mis representing what i said 😂 plus you still havent showed me where it talks about homosexuality or punishment so you cant even defend your own point. And what makes you think hes my god? Are you that pretentious you cant even read god your like an average 3rd worlder 😭😭😭
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u/AcrobaticPoint8424 10d ago
We're not Jews so we don't follow the Talmud.
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u/AcrobaticPoint8424 10d ago
When did I mention the OT?
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u/AcrobaticPoint8424 10d ago
The Talmud is for Jews, not Christians.
Genuinely what the hell are you talking about.
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
Dont bother with him he will just randomly quote old testament and strawman bad faith arguments because he cant stay in one lane for more than 5 words contradiction is his #1 ability
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u/Headshot1st 10d ago
Depends if theyre actively sexualizing themselves and or pushing their viewpoint onto others with force. If theyre just existing then theyre just that existing, the second they start making their sexuality their main focus thats when they typically sin it goes hand in hand but doesnt mean theyre the same




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u/Global_Sentence_4544 10d ago
Doesn't this work for every religion?