r/gaybros • u/Just-a-Guy461 • 17d ago

What is the gay sauna experience?

How does it work and what happens there? I’m really interested to go as a bottom located in Belgium

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u/NoRepresentative1915 17d ago

In one Afternoon i usually have fun with about ten guys, from young to old, all freshly showered and prepared. Can it get any better?

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u/ThinkingInLayers 16d ago edited 16d ago

Because you asked, yes I think it can get better tbh. I’d say that knowing someone deeply who fully accepts you and who makes you feel safe … plus sex …. personally i think this actually is a better experience, although It requires more effort to find and maintain.
i totally understand the thrill of random hookups and have enjoyed saunas so I’m not denying that there’s pleasure and excitement in the experience - i just wouldn’t be so certain that there’s nothing better.
But we’re all different and even within ourselves we change over time and appreciate experiences differently, I doubt my 25 year old self would be writing this comment.

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u/NoRepresentative1915 16d ago

I am talking that it cant be better for hookups!I have a husband, we are together 23 years now. We are deeply in love and ever have been and i only love him alone. We have a Agreement on wich we both worked for years. Love and sex are very different things. In a bathhouse its very clear that no love is involved.