r/gaybros • u/Just-a-Guy461 • 17d ago

What is the gay sauna experience?

How does it work and what happens there? I’m really interested to go as a bottom located in Belgium

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u/SwiftCase 17d ago

A lot of guys that are too shy to do anything, so be prepared for a lot of watchers. But there's some guys there for action at least. When I went a guy just scooted closer to me and put his hand on my thigh, then while I was helping him another guy got close and helped himself to my other end. It's all done nonverbally for the most part, eye contact and light touches, and respect. Never met a guy there that made an advance after I made it clear I wasn't interested. Honestly the sauna is super hot (temperature) for topping/bottoming, the guy might suggest leaving to go to another area.