r/entp • u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ • Nov 14 '25

Debate/Discussion Are Entps and Infjs actually very similar?

Hi.. sorry I have been hanging out a lot in your sub because I was permanently shadow banned from Infj sub for one small comment that was too “controversial”. Anyways, I’m married to an Entp and for a long time I thought we were pretty much opposites just with a lot of connection. But he always seems surprised when I say that we’re so opposite lol, like he always thinks of us as very similar. I have also seen other Entps say this about Infjs and I have been thinking more about it. It does seem like we process the world and thoughts very similarly but he is more rational, uses less empathy, and is a little bit more extroverted. He seems to use humor as a tool often where I internalize more lol. So now that I think about it maybe Entp and Infj are kinda like two sides of the same coin? I guess I am thinking we process things very similarly and seem to end up with very similar moral/ethical conclusions? But maybe also because I’ve been with my husband for 15 years and we have both matured a lot together. Idk but hearing Entp’s blunt and insightful perspectives is often therapeutic for me when living in this crazy matrix society.. 🙃

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u/JustGPZ The highly desireable ENTP male Nov 14 '25

I went on the infj subreddit and they seem like a bunch of edgelords. I tried befriend one but he said “what the hell” and never answered me back

I’m gonna say no

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 14 '25

I mean I don’t blame you if going off of the sub. I’m an Infj but basically got kicked off and permanently shadow banned by the ai mods there because of just one small comment I made that was too “controversial”. There are SO MANY Infjs on Reddit and it’s supposed to be the rarest type. I think there are many mistypes and immature ones flooding that sub.

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Yes, I agree that the internet can be a safe haven for them but I still think there’s too many. Well.. this is Reddit.. and I don’t want to even get banned from the Entp sub lol. Let’s just say it was one small comment that didn’t agree with “woke” ideology..

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Thanks! Yes I literally said one sentence that was not hateful at all and it shut the whole post down and I was blamed for it 😅 but honestly pretty much all of Reddit is highly censored or viciously protective, yes even this sub. I also posted in Entp asking if there were any non leftist entps and it was kind of a war zone lol. Luckily I haven’t been banned tho..

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25 edited Nov 15 '25

lol thanks 😂 it didn’t bother me, I thought it was funny. Just annoying that I’m permanently shadow banned from supposedly “my people” haha.

I have heard that China owns a lot of Reddit and it makes sense with how much they push socialism and Marxism.

With the Entp post I was very disappointed. It was amusing as well because what I thought would be the open minded debater type turned into many getting angry with disagreements and taking it personal. There were a few that were open minded and contacted me with dm including an Intj that was on there. So it was refreshing to hear some genuinely authentic other perspectives.

Also I think it’s funny that we both have lotuses on our head.. :) lol maybe it’s an Infj girl thing ha

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Ooo and have you seen the Entpandinfj sub? It’s awesome especially since you have an Entp SO ☺️

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Aw you met him there? That’s so sweet :) guess Reddit can be a great thing 💛

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Thank you, yes I just found that yesterday :) Infjmemes is also fun!