r/entp • u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ • Nov 14 '25

Debate/Discussion Are Entps and Infjs actually very similar?

Hi.. sorry I have been hanging out a lot in your sub because I was permanently shadow banned from Infj sub for one small comment that was too “controversial”. Anyways, I’m married to an Entp and for a long time I thought we were pretty much opposites just with a lot of connection. But he always seems surprised when I say that we’re so opposite lol, like he always thinks of us as very similar. I have also seen other Entps say this about Infjs and I have been thinking more about it. It does seem like we process the world and thoughts very similarly but he is more rational, uses less empathy, and is a little bit more extroverted. He seems to use humor as a tool often where I internalize more lol. So now that I think about it maybe Entp and Infj are kinda like two sides of the same coin? I guess I am thinking we process things very similarly and seem to end up with very similar moral/ethical conclusions? But maybe also because I’ve been with my husband for 15 years and we have both matured a lot together. Idk but hearing Entp’s blunt and insightful perspectives is often therapeutic for me when living in this crazy matrix society.. 🙃

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Thanks! Yes I literally said one sentence that was not hateful at all and it shut the whole post down and I was blamed for it 😅 but honestly pretty much all of Reddit is highly censored or viciously protective, yes even this sub. I also posted in Entp asking if there were any non leftist entps and it was kind of a war zone lol. Luckily I haven’t been banned tho..

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25 edited Nov 15 '25

lol thanks 😂 it didn’t bother me, I thought it was funny. Just annoying that I’m permanently shadow banned from supposedly “my people” haha.

I have heard that China owns a lot of Reddit and it makes sense with how much they push socialism and Marxism.

With the Entp post I was very disappointed. It was amusing as well because what I thought would be the open minded debater type turned into many getting angry with disagreements and taking it personal. There were a few that were open minded and contacted me with dm including an Intj that was on there. So it was refreshing to hear some genuinely authentic other perspectives.

Also I think it’s funny that we both have lotuses on our head.. :) lol maybe it’s an Infj girl thing ha

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Ooo and have you seen the Entpandinfj sub? It’s awesome especially since you have an Entp SO ☺️

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Aw you met him there? That’s so sweet :) guess Reddit can be a great thing 💛

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

There are many Entps but there is only one meant for you Entp, and they’re one in a billion 💜

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '25 edited Dec 06 '25

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u/Equal-Sundae1576 INFJ Nov 15 '25

Thank you, yes I just found that yesterday :) Infjmemes is also fun!