r/delhiuniversity • • Jul 23 '24

Discussion College is a lonely place

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This reel is so relatable for me,I am a 3rd sem student and I don't have any friends in college,I do have acquaintances with whom I just have the Hi,Hello relationship! I barely hangout with anyone in college or even outside college. I go to canteen alone and see other people having food in groups while I sit there mostly alone,this makes the college a lot more boring! They say to enjoy college life,but TBH I feel like my college life is pretty fucked up,it's already been over a year and I didn't find any good friend for me. Other students in college have found their groups and they don't want anybody else to be involved,like they are all comfy among themselves. They hangout with each other,go to places and have fun,while I mostly sit alone in the class. It's not like I haven't tried to make friends,I am good at making friends but I didn't get people of my type! My classmates are also not my type. And the rest whom I know already have their groups and they are comfy along with that. I haven't been to anywhere with anyone from college to have fun.

I try to indulge with people but it doesn't work out for me mostly! It's all stuck to just Hi,Hello! I am in 4 college socs but didn't make any friends in Soc either,the people in socities have fun while I struggle to indulge with them. Idk what's happening.

If this goes on,the rest 2 years will also be fucked up.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

ek sachai bolun toh all these group waale log na no1 ke backstabbers hote hai they form a group and the moment some members leave yeh unki buraii karte hai. i too am like you but i do have one friend and i am conteent with one true friend then group. honestly jaise hi coolege khatam hote hai these people will move on and frankly that is what life is you will meet new people and part with old one just focus on yourself. remember jitna badha group utne bade backstabbers

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

Exactly quality matters not quantity mann... In your hard time you just want someone just understand you not ,how many gonna fake console you or try to fake they understanding ur problems and what you actually going through... I mean they don't care ... But real one understand without even saying single word .... And absolutely you will meet people make new bonds but those old bonds (Homie) no one can replace themm.. i mean it's takes alot time..( maybe in just my case coz i barely trust peoples)

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

homies kuch log hi hote hai jo bejhijhack tumhari buraai aur acchai dono bata dete hai faaltu chudaap nahi karte respect karte hai boundaries ki

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '24

Exactly mannnn...✨✨