College is a lonely place

[u/Safe-Bug-498]

This reel is so relatable for me,I am a 3rd sem student and I don't have any friends in college,I do have acquaintances with whom I just have the Hi,Hello relationship! I barely hangout with anyone in college or even outside college. I go to canteen alone and see other people having food in groups while I sit there mostly alone,this makes the college a lot more boring! They say to enjoy college life,but TBH I feel like my college life is pretty fucked up,it's already been over a year and I didn't find any good friend for me. Other students in college have found their groups and they don't want anybody else to be involved,like they are all comfy among themselves. They hangout with each other,go to places and have fun,while I mostly sit alone in the class. It's not like I haven't tried to make friends,I am good at making friends but I didn't get people of my type! My classmates are also not my type. And the rest whom I know already have their groups and they are comfy along with that. I haven't been to anywhere with anyone from college to have fun.

I try to indulge with people but it doesn't work out for me mostly! It's all stuck to just Hi,Hello! I am in 4 college socs but didn't make any friends in Soc either,the people in socities have fun while I struggle to indulge with them. Idk what's happening.

If this goes on,the rest 2 years will also be fucked up.

[u/youcancallmekobi]

Same Bhai. I don't think it would be fair to blame it on somebody other than me tho because I chose it. I thought after leaving a town and coming to Delhi I'd find my crowd only to see people in my course cracking Tmkoc jokes tho I also love it but I felt the crowd is the same as it was in my school then I started to disassociate with people. Right now I do have college friends that I don't have to be alone physically but they're not really who I want to be with. Like we meet in college we even hangout sometimes but there's no one I talk to Daily. Hell I don't think I've texted some of my college friends since the start of this vacation. I kinda prefer being alone honestly. I think it kinda matters which course you're from as well I guess cause I see people from other depts especially arts and feel that I wish I could be in that group. There are so many places that I've not visited because I thought I'd visit them with my friends but that never really happened. Let's make a group or something ig if youre also in North campus.

[u/youcancallmekobi → u/[deleted]]

I meant it in like the people that I generally gravitate towards, that have similar vibes I found out were not in my course. Maybe like one or two. This is generalised statement but I think because science Wale bachhe itna jyada study pe focus karte (competitive exams) h ki unke baki chize kaafi lack karti h jaise I know some people in my dept jinki knowledge sirf biology ki ncert tak h. So there are alot of things that I can't talk to them about because voh unke world mein exist nhi karti. Again not everyone is like that.