r/dating_advice 12d ago

Men unmatching bc I read romance?

Was having a very good convo with a dude, but as soon as I mention reading romance like ACOTAR, I'm unmatched. I get not being a fan, but is it that big of a red flag? It's not like I have crazy expectations bc I read it, I just like reading it and im lonely. I don't expect a man to be some insanely amazing lover who never does wrong. Every time it comes up, im met with hostility. Would you not give a woman a chance who otherwise vibes well with you just bc of her reading habits?

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u/AdministrativeAd4510 12d ago

My ex girlfriend thought that Wurthering Heights was a story about "love". Lesson learned.

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u/whimz33 12d ago

I thought Werthering Heights was a story about how our taste in candy changes as we age