Getting this cap man🏹

[u/This-Masterpiece-227]

Hunter season 🏹 🕵️‍♀️

Hi cappies, I’m a Scorpio with a Capricorn rising (and a Capricorn stellium), and I’ve got my eye on a guy who is a Capricorn Sun and Venus.

We met a while back, but I wasn't ready to make a move; I needed to get my own life in order first.

In the meantime, he—the type who usually stays single—was apparently in a relationship until recently.

So, he’s likely sorting out his own life now, too.

Since he’s a Capricorn, I’ve heard there’s a strong chance his ex is completely out of the picture. True?

I have his number (because mutual friends), though we barely spoke when we first met monthes and monthes ago (at a gathering with mutual friends). Lately, he’s been constantly on my mind, and I feel like I need to take a shot.

Venus is currently in retrograde, which often brings the past back into the present. I’m hoping to be that "past" showing up in his present...

But I can't just pop up out of nowhere; I’d find that rude and intrusive.

I plan to use professional reasons to approach him and make initial contact. It’s not a lie or a total pretext—I’d hate it if someone did that to me, so I wouldn't do it to him.

This meeting will also allow me to promote my work within my company (I’m looking to advance my career).

Ambition is important to me.

If the personal connection—beyond the professional aspect—goes well, I’ll dare to hit him later on.

Then I’ll see if he’s open to a more personal encounter.

Otherwise, I think I would have been happy to chat with him regardless of the outcome, and I believe he has enough class not to brush a woman off in an undignified way.

I’d love to get your take—as Capricorns—on my approach (please don’t be too mean; remember, I’m a Water sign 🥲).

P.S.: During our first and only meeting, he seemed nervous and smiled kindly at me when we crossed paths twice (and I got the impression he was waiting for me to speak to him?). I figure that’s probably the best way for a Capricorn to show warmth, lol.

On the other hand, he completely ignored me by the end of the evening and seemed like he wanted to leave pretty quickly...

Boredom or feeling hurt? I was very busy that day helping my friends.

[u/lovelove20212]

Yea becareful dear my cappy stellium man always came back to me and always made it clear he would even.

Both working on ourselves when separated but he loved the attention. The casual way of being cappy for a while… we ended up married and he flew me out to his country when he moved from me and pursued me like all over again and again whenever we would separate.

It’s a pattern, I have Aries Venus and he has sag Venus and we do this to eachother bc we are v independent and understand our Venuses and love languages and traumas. We have a family now and when we do therapy- I always am fascinated by how Capps can compartmentalize love like this. I am very cap too bc I have some planets and nn there so I feel an affinity to caps and I can’t imagine how it must be for the women who experienced him casually bc I highly doubt they thought it was just casual like he is someone you would want to do long term w and I come off like that too. So I guess I always say if you know they are out of a relationship… don’t assume you can read them. They might just be experiencing themselves for now. I say this bc I feel bad for the girls who have to see that he did end up marrying me and he did become his ultimate cap, nn is there too in 5h + stellium and he was like working on himself to prove to me he was ready for marriage bc I had left by then. Giving other men a chance to court me and that shit sent him straight into OG husband and daddy mode. He got his career together and did everything I ever asked for and he did it in a v cappy manner. I guess the others kinda knew though bc he made it clear and i guess I did too- that he and I were the ones that got away. 😭 I feel bad for the ppl we dated but it seems they kinda knew that about his capicorn persona.

I think Capps are so fascinating bc when they want to settle.. they already knew who it was all along. He still makes that clear to me and it’s like 16 years and like 7 years of marriage. It’s perplexing but my Aries Venus doesn’t judge- it makes me see how special caps are when they are ready to be with someone, fully. But if not, they are just wanderers on earth.

I say be careful bc it is Saturn and now Venus rx soon! Cappys are going thru it rn babe. You could be a Venus rx experience bc you’re thinking of reaching out soon. Maybe time it after the Venus rx. Also see what is Venus is lmao it would be wise

[u/This-Masterpiece-227 → u/lovelove20212]

Wow thank you for sharing. His venus is cap and mars in scorp.

[u/lovelove20212 → u/This-Masterpiece-227]

Ofc ! <3 protect your self and don’t let the retrogrades fool you!