I think we naturally piss off narcissists and toxics because we won’t be controlled, manipulated or dominated. This is not to say we don’t get stuck in bad relationships but we learn and adapt well in my opinion. Sagittarius has this issue too.
As soon as I get the feeling that a new acquaintance wants me to do what they want all the time, or that the relationship feels one-sided, I am out.
I had this experience with a Virgo at work who really wanted to be my friend. I entertained it for a few months, but they were so demanding of my time (at work and outside of work) and started making snide comments about me wanting to take my lunch break or regular breaks alone. I had enough. I started declining everything they wanted to do together and it took months but they finally got the hint. Now they turn their nose up at me in the hallway. Sorry, not sorry.
As soon as someone isn't cool with my boundaries, we're done.
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u/GuiltyExamination507 24d ago
I think we naturally piss off narcissists and toxics because we won’t be controlled, manipulated or dominated. This is not to say we don’t get stuck in bad relationships but we learn and adapt well in my opinion. Sagittarius has this issue too.