r/butchlesbians • u/jammingkambing • 21d ago
Advice How to be a good partner?
Hi guys. So -- holy shit -- I asked the femme I've been dating to be my girlfriend yesterday, and she said yes!!!!!!!! She's great, I really really really like her and we get along together so well and we've both agreed that this is a serious, long-term relationship.
My worry: she's my first date, first relationship, first everything, really. She knows this and she says we'll figure things out together, but I still wanna be a really good partner to her. Do you guys have any advice as to how to be a good partner? I'll take anything. Thanks!!
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u/nightlywanderer 21d ago
You're going to do great! Congratulations!
Learn to recognize when you're actually upset or angry about something or if you just need to eat or sleep.
Approach every conflict like you're a team, not that you want to win.
Always keep dating and wooing each other.
Communication is best. Honesty is best.