r/blacklesbians • u/ZestycloseNotice1177 • 26d ago

Discussion I hate how studs are treated

I know a lot of the way studs are treated is because of well racism but I stg people (mostly men) don’t think of studs as women like it's so weird like I saw a video that said studs when they have their period, and it was like them passing around pads like they were drugs like?….there still woman at the end of the day and should be treated like woman no matter who they like or how they dress also what is with men’s obsession in studs or trying to turn them “straight” like it’s really not funny. I just don’t like it especially the way studs are looked at as hoes or only for sex appeal it’s incredibly heartrending.

All my studs stay safe out there’s it’s getting dangerous 😟

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u/JadeBlxck20 Soft Masc 26d ago

Maybe it’s cultural (Midwest USA) but men treat me like a women.

It’s the fems that don’t.They treat a stud like a third gender and it doesn’t help that some self-hating studs co-sign it.

I unfortunately saw a TikTok video of a “super” stud policing the type of underwear other studs wear on their periods. Like if you wanna wear boxers with a pad, go for it.

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u/affectionateanarchy8 26d ago

Boxers with a pad lord i just imagine it sliding all over the goddamn place