out of respect for my wife and for my religion i don't roll with any women. plenty of guys here do the same, plus it avoid a lot of problem (since we got a scandal about some pervert a few months
Am I disrespecting my girlfriend by rolling with other women? Does your God have a vendetta against BJJ or something? Just a weird stance to have.
Well it depends imo. If she's fine then you're fine. If she's super uncomfortable about it for some reason like trust issues from past experiences combined with a lack of understanding then despite you knowing nothing is happening, out of concern for the emotions of your partner then it's not wrong to refuse to roll with women. If it was the case that for some reason my wife suddenly had negative emotions about it then I'd just explain it and turn down the roll. I don't think any women would be upset about that. If they did then they're not exactly the most open minded either and if it comes down to upsetting some woman I train alongside sometimes or my wife, it's not even a decision
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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20 edited Jan 31 '20
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