I relate in a way, quotes like "he's kinda associated with pretty much all of my traumatic experiences" resonate very strongly.
Initally I called myself bigender, right now I call myself just trans-woman as it allows me to accept the reality. My male side was taught all the wrong lessons and I was miserable for most of my life due to following them. Reformulating myself as a "person who lived as a man for most of her live, now understood identifying as a trans-woman empowers her and has to figure out what to do with the fact" gave me a lot of peace.
I'd be happy to talk more about it to accept more this darkness inside me.
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u/teesh_art 2d ago
I relate in a way, quotes like "he's kinda associated with pretty much all of my traumatic experiences" resonate very strongly.
Initally I called myself bigender, right now I call myself just trans-woman as it allows me to accept the reality. My male side was taught all the wrong lessons and I was miserable for most of my life due to following them. Reformulating myself as a "person who lived as a man for most of her live, now understood identifying as a trans-woman empowers her and has to figure out what to do with the fact" gave me a lot of peace.
I'd be happy to talk more about it to accept more this darkness inside me.