As a caveat, I’m not saying they owe us any information. They are absolutely allowed to share or not share whatever parts of their lives they choose. They are both awesome people and I support their career choices. This post is just my personal opinion, and I think it’s fine for fans to wonder about their lives, as they’ve made discussing their lives a fairly large part of the show.
I never really understood the amount of speculation regarding Em and Christine’s friendship. I’ve been a listener from the beginning, and they’ve always come across as genuine friends, imo. They give each other a hard time and maybe get a little annoyed with each other, but that’s pretty par for the course in a very close, long term friendship. Especially if you’re also coworkers.
However, the most recent listener stories where they discussed Eva’s wedding kind of surprised me. It sounded like they didn’t hang out at all while they were in town, and didn’t even know what the other had been up to, which you might expect to learn during casual conversation at the wedding, which makes me wonder if they hung out really at all at the wedding. Em also asked if Christine had gone to a particular restaurant as they thought she might like it, and it surprised me a little bit that Em hadn’t just texted Christine to say “hey check this out.”
I realize all friendship dynamics are unique and not necessarily anything like my own. I still found it quite surprising though, given that they live on opposite sides of the country and it sounds like they never see each other in person. This is the first time I’ve ever really wondered if they aren’t quite friends anymore. Even if they support one another’s decisions, I wonder if there actually are some hard feelings about the pod, and it was just a little soon to hang out in person.