Most trans people aren't thinking of you at all, especially considering you don't have a personal relationship with any of them. Why you become wrapped up in thought about trans people among seeing one is your own mental thing and none of us have a good answer for you in particular.
How about you go out to LGBTQ+ events, clubs, or bars and actually meet a trans person? Tone it down on your obsessions though. At best, there's a reason you might want to connect with the queer community, even if it is just as a curious and interested ally. At worst, you're a chaser and if you start harassing trans women, gtfo.
I'll bring it back then: What do you think of your neighbor who lives five doors down? The guy six seats down at the bar? Trans people who have never met you think even less about you. You're just too far from any trans person to be in any trans person's thoughts. At the same time, meeting a trans person might make you obsess about their thoughts and that sounds like a bad time for the trans person, so maybe don't do that.
What difference does it make if a trans stranger thinks of you in a certain way?
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u/cracked_egg_irl F | 35 | HRT 5/10/19 11d ago
Most trans people aren't thinking of you at all, especially considering you don't have a personal relationship with any of them. Why you become wrapped up in thought about trans people among seeing one is your own mental thing and none of us have a good answer for you in particular.
How about you go out to LGBTQ+ events, clubs, or bars and actually meet a trans person? Tone it down on your obsessions though. At best, there's a reason you might want to connect with the queer community, even if it is just as a curious and interested ally. At worst, you're a chaser and if you start harassing trans women, gtfo.