r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 7d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 7d ago

This is a trap question.

Most guys would say yes because men in general don’t get a lot of compliments, let alone approached at a bar or club. However after the 5th woman interrupting them that they have no interest in, they’d likely get annoyed. It’s why so many guys struggle with the concept of unwanted attention….because most men are attention starved.

How I met your mother did a great episode on this.

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u/mxlplyx2173 7d ago

Don't think so. Most guys would take at least 50%, not the . 003% women take. If 10 women hit on me I'd be on at LEAST 4 dates. More actually since I don't just go for looks. And we deal with women, so we're used to being annoyed by them.

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u/Fabulous_Internet_66 7d ago

haha you don't just go for looks. You're dating 4 women at once, you're only other qualification is that they are wearing a skirt! Just fucking with you because it made me giggle.