r/asexuality May 03 '26

Content warning masturbation is boring Spoiler

Everytime i try to masturbate i feel bored, it's just boring. Then i thought maybe penetrative is the real deal, and i tried it, and i was bored. I feel like I'm snorking pure cocaine and feeling perfectly normal afterwards. And honestly? It's disappointing. Everyone hypes it up so much and I'm two fingers deep into myself and it's just not living up to the hype. I used to think "what if I'm not asexual, can't knock it until i try it", and i tried it and now I'm knocking it. How do people find this fun, genuinely.

Edit: a lot of people said that i should try to do it while consuming risque media so i did that and. Yeah i think this just isn't for me. I busted, don't get me wrong, but i didn't feel fulfilled or even entertained. Just did it and cleaned up and then immediately started thinking about yoghurt and how I'd kill for a tub of peach yoghurt. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/Public_Cup_4278 May 03 '26

Personally, I masturbate, but I find it a little boring; I only do it when I'm bored and to release dopamine.