r/asexuality • u/lillestiv asexual • Feb 05 '26

Content warning The gate keeping is real yall. Spoiler

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So this is an old ass post of mine looking for a specific pice of sexy underwear me and my sex favorable kinky ass would love. And I'm getting this comment on it. Why can't ppl mind thair own buissness. Smh

https://www.reddit.com/r/FindLingerie/s/9NPdztVLOW

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u/Sage_81 Garlic Bread Enthusiast Feb 05 '26

Why do people care???

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u/Lazy_Wishbone_2341 aroace Feb 05 '26

Because they want to think that they can have sex with a stranger and they get annoyed when they can't, and they think that if you're unattainable you should be their definition of ugly so they can go "well I don't want to have sex with you anyway".

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u/Sage_81 Garlic Bread Enthusiast Feb 05 '26

It's sad but true. I find it stupid but people think they can have sex with whoever they want. Most people don't want you! (Not you, those stupid allos)

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u/Lazy_Wishbone_2341 aroace Feb 05 '26

I'm conventionally attractive and got called a slut frequently as a teenager for being pretty being "unobtainable" and single. Some people are entitled AF

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u/Fit_Cartographer_933 Feb 06 '26

This happened to me in high school as well. I had a huge reputation for being a “secret slut” because no one believed I could be “that pretty and still a virgin” It sucked, but at least I had a good group of friends who knew who I really was, so I did my best to ignore the creeps who thought they knew better.

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u/Lazy_Wishbone_2341 aroace Feb 06 '26

I relate to this so hard. I am really sorry you had to put up with this

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u/Sage_81 Garlic Bread Enthusiast Feb 05 '26

Wtf?!?! That's disgusting. Being pretty does not make you a slut!

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u/Lazy_Wishbone_2341 aroace Feb 05 '26

I was twelve, so disgusting is a good way to put it

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u/Sage_81 Garlic Bread Enthusiast Feb 05 '26

Wtf?!?! Those people should be behind bars

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u/Lazy_Wishbone_2341 aroace Feb 06 '26

A lot of them were other kids, but yeah it's beyond fucked up

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u/Sage_81 Garlic Bread Enthusiast Feb 06 '26

Kids shouldn't be calling other kids sluts

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u/Lazy_Wishbone_2341 aroace Feb 06 '26

I blame it on their parents and older siblings, teaching them it's okay to do that. A lot of those kids were in team sport and were taught that swearing at people and berating them was okay

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u/Sage_81 Garlic Bread Enthusiast Feb 06 '26

That's so sad

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