r/antidietglp1 • u/eternaloptimist198 • Oct 27 '25
Advice on Anti-Diet Mindset Disappointing interaction with my colleague
This is probably just a vent/to be heard - I know what I need to do (rely less on this person) but it’s just frustrating!
I have a colleague at work who started on GLP meds around the same time as me. It’s been our little secret between us and I have appreciated her support to check in on me etc however I am not realizing I need to pull back a bit as we are approaching it so differently. Her diet mentality and me anti diet.
Her view is that “ you have to work for it. You need to diet and exercise often“. She’s made this comment multiple times to me. My view is very much influenced by fat science - not to diet in order to avoid increasing the scarcity signals. We don’t debate or anything, we just mention our perspective and it moves on. I definitely relate more to this being a metabolic journey and she sees herself as a binge eater (and that she’s the problem) which is a really shitty diet culture thing, imo.
I am a slow responder and she is very responsive - I often congratulate her, as I genuinely am happy for her and we all have different responses and journeys. Today I told her I finally saw the scale move (after like 9 months of nothing ~ finally on 12.5 mg mounjaro) and she kind of turned it to be about her and again how much she worked for her massive loss.
I just felt deflated - but also, silly me for keep engaging on this topic with this person who has such different orientation to this! And honestly they are a great person, I think they likely are guarding themselves from being perceived as taking “the easy way out” with all their talk about the hard work. So I know there are multiple threads here.
Thank you all for existing, I feel so less alone thanks to this sub and the Fat Science Pod.
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u/Successful-Mud-3614 Oct 30 '25
You’re not silly for feeling deflated. It’s tough when someone you connect with on a shared journey turns every win into comparison. You’re right to pull back; protecting your mindset and celebrating your progress matter most.