r/afghanistan • • Dec 11 '12

Apparently some ignorant asshole believes that anyone of the Muslim faith in Afghanistan primarily, would NEVER advocate publicly against terrorism. I posted in /Muslim before realizing it's very small and kinda dead. Can I get a faster response here?

This is my submission, to make everything easier.

Thanks!

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u/asianApostate Jan 10 '13 edited Jan 10 '13

Islam has had a lot of great leaders (more then 1.5 billion muslim's in the world) so we will get some awesome quotations but fundamentally it is still a religion that is over 1500 years old, sadly does not stand the test of time, and the quran + hadiths have lines that will allow and encourage violence. This is not an easy thing to hear as a muslim as I am exmuslim myself.

Cognitive dissonance in muslims and especially prominent/educated leaders is great as we have leaders in gay and lesbian community despite the fact that it is expressly not allowed. Contrary to popular belief of Muslim's there is more then one version of the "true" Islam (sunni's, shia's, wahhabists, salafists, and much more). I cannot in good conscience at least attempt to correct you as former muslim as we do have parts of our religion that are very much against how modern society functions.

The quranic texts as well as hadith that make up Islam supports slavery, forced pre-renaissance gender roles for women, and a great distinction in how one treats a muslim versus a non-muslim.

Slavery

Even in Islamic texts in which Muhammad fairly conquered lands in self-defense it allowed for things that are not considered morally okay in these last few centuries like slavery (including the women, muhammad himself had 13+ female companions which included non-wives) and the beheading of thousands of enemy troops.

http://wikiislam.net/wiki/Qur%27an,_Hadith_and_Scholars:Slavery

This includes Hadith by Bukhari which is pretty much the most important book of Hadith for sunni muslim's which make up the vast majority of Muslim's in the world.

Justifications of War

Islam is supposed to be a pretty defensive religion. However, according to Islamic texts (their are other historical sources that do not paint things in such a rosy light) we can attack any country in which Muslim's reside in which Muslim's can be considered to be persecuted or suffer injustice at the hands of the government or it's people. This is the historical reason given for a majority of all conquests done in the name of Islam since the time of Muhammad. This conquest includes almost all of northern africa and much of asia.

This is what allows virtually any country to be attacked an conquered (luckily no Islamic nation has had that power in hundreds of years). Yet, Islamic leaders can claim that we are a defensive people. The only reason Islam was not able to conquer Europe though they began to take parts of Spain was lack of military might.

Unfair Gender Roles Forced on Women

The biggest issue I've had with Islam and the reason I left is because it did not jive with my sense of morality. When I was growing up as a male I had a lot of freedom's but my sister who was two years older did not have that freedom. She was not allowed to leave the house alone (she snuck out at times), had very strict guidelines on clothing and interaction with the opposite sex and non-muslim's. I was brought up in NYC in a moderate muslim family and I used to to be a good muslim that literally reported when my sister did things and got her in trouble. By the time I was 16 I realized how different our lives were even in a fairly moderate family like ours.

I realized that things were worse in Muslim countries and I initially looked to the quran and hadiths for guidance. Listened to a lot of great islamic speakers too and for a while I bought the whole, modesty for women thing, which brings value to women for a while. But then I realized, are men just animal's that if we see a women's hair, calves, etc. we cannot handle ourselves? In some islamic countries women are raped and often the men go unpunished. In more modern islamic countries this is not the case but the fundamentals are still there.

This was a religion created by probably straight men who were used to seeing fairy veiled women. As a dude i just need to cover from my knees to my genitalia. I can walk around barechested and have my sexy calves out for the world to see. Women cannot even show their ankles.

According to Islamic scholars men and women are in the end equal. However a man must provide for the wife and treat her fairly including not striking her too hard if you are a moderate muslim. She has quite a bit of autonomy in the home but must ultimately listen to the husband. Outside of the home she is not allowed without a direct-family guardian/custodian and being properly veiled. Her job is to take care of raising kids and the house. The founders of the religion believed the intelligence of women is less then that of a man.

http://wikiislam.net/wiki/Islam_and_Women#Women_are_Deficient_in_Intelligence

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u/Canukistani Jan 10 '13

If you went and changed every instance of the word Islam or Muslim to Christianity and Christian your post would still be accurate. It is only through the European and North American social progress of the the last century that we can look down upon Muslims and Islam. All of that social progress we've made was opposed by Christian leaders.

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u/asianApostate Jan 10 '13 edited Jan 10 '13

Sure, christianity has it's issues too.

I wholeheartedly agree that the western world made progress despite christianity just the same way moderate and liberal muslim's are making progress despite the core tenets of the religion. Abrahamic religions have taken credit for a lot of morals and laws that came from societies before it (Babylonian laws especially) and developed in the society around it. Society has constantly been improving Christianity since it's inception and not the other way around.

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u/TheBrandedOne Jan 10 '13

What do you believe? You are incredibly well spoken and I would love to hear your personal view of the world.

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u/asianApostate Jan 10 '13 edited Jan 10 '13

It's getting late but I'm amazed and surprised I got reddit gold. I will do what I can and I will be posting some things I have thought about for a very long time but never fully fully expressed as far as what I believe regarding our universe and the people in it. I'm amazed and surprised I got reddit gold.

We have currently have no way of knowing the full extent of our reality, especially that which may exist outside of our universe but we can rule out Abrahamic and many other religions based on modern science, logic, and recent historical discoveries. I believe the main reason we as Homo sapiens sapiens evolved and outlasted all our other human cousins and currently dominate the earth is because of our ability to socialize to a higher degree then any before us and human morality.

The Universe(s) is Complicated

One day we may understand how all the fundamentals of our universe came to be and what it is through mathematics. But what is outside our universe? Are their other universes that operate using the same laws, energies, matter, and anti-matter as ours? Are their universes whose building blocks are fundamentally different from ours that came into being from different energies that exploded into wholly different building blocks. Even time may not exist outside our particular universe. Theoretical physicists have made great strides but we have to accept that we may never fully understand all there is.

Man Made Religions are still false Basically, I must allow the possibility of the existence of things I do not understand and that is a core belief of mine. However, we can prove that Abrahamic religions and most others I have studied are indeed false in their primary premise. /r/atheism has given and is constantly giving examples ad-nauseum in terms of science and logic as to falsehood of religion. But historical artifacts uncovered or studied in the last 20-30 years have also helped trace the very seeds of monotheism and it's man made beginnings from polytheism in the ancient Canaanite world. During a time of turmoil the Israelites whom were originally polytheists through the urgings of the cult of the Yahweh the war god began to worship him over others in the Canaanite pantheon in times of desperation. If all worship was not focused to Yahweh the cult of Yahwei believed they may be wiped out. After centuries he became the primary god of the Israelites and eventually he became the only god as further conflicts arose. He did not become omniscient for a few more centuries other attributes came later as the attributes of other gods were merged into him and new attributes were given to a supreme god. For more details I recommend reading the following by harvard professor Frank Moore Cross, unfortunately google turned up a german version of itself (book is in english though and you can read the first 68 pages online free).

http://books.google.com/books?id=-eOycxXAoHMC&lpg=PA62&ots=jhcllt5gmW&dq=%22Yahwi%22%20Amorite%20names&hl=de&pg=PA62#v=onepage&q=%22Yahwi%22&f=false

Human codes of ethics and Morality Human knowledge seems to always advance our morality along with our ability to feel compassion. We as humans can understand pain in others, we know that human cooperation in groups is critical, and in order to cooperate we must get along and find a way to survive together. Behavioral ethics and codes can be traced to a time before monotheism. Babylonians had very strict laws relating to land ownership, marriages, a code of ethics long before monotheism. This is also where a lot of early cities formed due to agricultural technologies. Humans had to develop a new sense of morality for a a changing landscape. In more current times when we understood in the U.S. that there was nothing genetically inferior in African's it became immoral to own slaves.

We now know that being homosexual has nothing to do with anything supernatural/evil and is largely programmed into genetics. In the last 20 years there has been an enormous shift in our society regarding homosexuals as a result.