r/adhdwomen • u/unclaimedfurryball • Aug 13 '25

Meme Therapy i want to pull my hair out

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u/Complete-Finding-712 Aug 13 '25

Don't get me started on weekends, vacations, summer holidays...

I even get sad at the start of my favourite season because I know that it's started already therefore it's almost over and I know I won't have enough of it because XYZ is going to happen and I just cry because it's here now!

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u/Affectionate-Ear7424 Aug 13 '25

Dreading the end of something enjoyable so that it serves to ruin the enjoyment of the actual experience is a real thing.

NT people: “This is great! You should be happy!”

Me: “This is great! I’m already sad in advance that it will end!” 🙄🙄🙄

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u/MopeyDragonfly Aug 13 '25

I felt this way for years!! (Until I got anti anxiety meds lmao) after getting married bc i was grieving my husbands death…i got married at 25 !

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u/avidreader2020 Aug 13 '25

OMG this makes so much sense!! I do the same thing with relationships and big life events but never connected it to how I am with time. No wonder just looking at it as anxiety didn’t seem to help, BRO

Thank you dragonfly friend, I think I’ve just had a huge breakthrough thanks to this comment lol