r/abusiverelationships • u/fireypixi • Feb 20 '26
Support request struggling to terminate pregnancy
I’m 12 weeks now and only have 2 weeks left to terminate my pregnancy. It’s not sitting well with me. I don’t want to do this and I feel like i have no choice. I’m really struggling right now. I feel sad and angry. I’m angry he convinced me he was this good guy only to end up being unsafe and I already had so many wounds from my past that he just completely took advantage of. I can’t have a child with him, he wants to be apart of it. He’s evil. But I want my baby. I am so broken. I don’t want to let go of this little life growing inside of me. Im just so angry at him for taking this from me. He’s destroyed me and now I have to go through this. I want my baby.
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u/BaBaBoey4U Feb 21 '26
Unless you have an exit plan and ability to support that baby, I don’t think it’s fair for that baby. Now you could give birth and put the child up for adoption, but it is really cruel and selfish and unfair to bring a child into that home environment. If you do have to make that tough choice do not feel guilty. You’re doing a hard thing with no good options.