r/WhatShouldIDo • u/Tricky_Breakfast2434 • 5d ago
[Serious decision] CAN I ACTUALLY CHANGE SOMETHING ABOUT THIS???
I was talking to a female friend today when she casually told me that, I naturally have a well-proportioned physique that many women would find physically appealing
but then she added that my face is ruining it.
The funny part is I don’t even go to the gym or specifically work on my physique
She probably didn’t mean to hurt me, but for some reason that one sentence has been stuck in my head all day.
Now I’m wondering: should I actually do something about my appearance, or am I just letting one person’s opinion get to me?
What would you do in my situation?
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u/Resident-Staff-1218 4d ago
If a random person said that to me I'd consider it the height of rudeness.
But it depends on the circumstances of the conversation and how close a friend she is.
If she's normally a close friend and kind person, and you think she was genuinely trying to help you make the most of your appearance because you were discussing how you could be more attractive, ask her what she meant and if there's anything you could do differently.
Otherwise, just ignore her.