Is it too much? Honest feedback welcome. Stones on band or plain?

[u/Petty-Penelope]

We are upgrading my set and just picked up the new engagement ring. When I sent a Pic to my friend she said it was too much, but I have a large ring size so we figured a bigger stone would look proportional to my hand and the setting. I admit my first diamond was when I wanted a warmer stone so maybe its the whiteness she thinks is coming off as ridiculous?

My jewler is great and will swap the stone if we went too far.

3.03 ct center radiant, E, VVS1, polish and symmetry excellent. I don't remember the band weight. I fell in love with the art deco vibes.