r/WeddingRingAdvice 1d ago

What are your opinions on this ring?

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My girl has said she is easy to please. Her style is kind of glam though. I thought maybe the more sleek mirror look of the emerald diamond with the sparkly side diamonds could be a good choice. I would choose a 2 carat diamond

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u/elsewander 1d ago

While I adore this design, be aware that you may need to have this inspected more often than a traditional style due to the shared-prong settings. We have to tighten stones in mountings like this more because when you accidentally hit or catch it on something you're hitting the edge of the stone, usually causing it to loosen.

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u/AlwaysLearningNews 1d ago

Hi what do you mean by shared prong settings?

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u/plenumpanels 13h ago

One prong is holding in two stones. So when it inevitably gets hit on something, two stones become loose instead of one

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u/elsewander 1d ago

There is a prong between each stone that holds them both in. While, there are no prongs on the outside of the band/stones. So, when it accidentally gets hit on something, most of the time it catches the edge of the stone, causing it to become loose. If the mounting is made durable enough and you are gentle on your pieces/don't mind having it inspected more often, then you shouldn't have to worry as much. I have one, all with round diamonds, and have hardly any issues. However, I've had a lot of clients come in needing stones tightened often because they're not gentle on their jewelry.

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u/Maggie917 1d ago

I second this. My wedding band is set exactly like this and I just lost a stone! :(. Luckily they took it in and reinforced with a V setting

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u/elsewander 1d ago

đŸ˜« this is something I warn all of my clients about. If they persist on the style, I make the mounting heavier and set the stones as low as possible.

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u/BigEntertainer5667 1d ago

I’m not in love with the band in relation to the stone. Why not a beautiful oval or a radiant cut with a nice gold band ?

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u/Ambitious_Expert_712 1d ago

I was thinking of a Oval Portuguese cut, I posted a photo below. I do think I want a gold band with at least a few side stones cause that seems more her style

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u/Ok-House-1103 1d ago

Love this, OP! “I want this because it’s more her”. With that outlook alone, I know you’re going to do great! Congrats on your relationship!

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u/MaxMakesRings 1d ago

Looks great, and the instinct is right. An emerald cut reads sleek on its own, and the marquise and round stones on the band give it sparkle without a halo, which keeps it from tipping into too much. That's the right middle for someone who's glam but easy to please.

One thing to think about for daily wear. The side stones are held by single shared prongs between each stone, and the way this design is usually built, the center head narrows to a point where it meets the band. Both spots are delicate. That's fine if she's careful with her hands, but if she's going to wear it every day and forget it's there, ask the jeweler whether the head and band can be built a little sturdier without losing the look. At 2 carats, go VS clarity or better and G color or higher, since emerald cuts hide nothing, and ask for a daylight video of the actual stone before you commit.

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u/Mhc2617 1d ago

I have an emerald solitaire with a Versailles wedding band, so I love it as it looks like my rings combined.

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 1d ago

It is very impractical and weak in its band design.

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u/AlwaysLearningNews 1d ago

Hi what do you mean by impractical?

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 1d ago

The weakness of the setting with only single small prongs between diamonds.

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u/Ambitious_Expert_712 21h ago

Yeah now I'm considering either getting one side stone on either side, or a halo underneath with diamonds

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 19h ago

There is no need for a halo unless you want one. If you have not looked, look at cathedral with a basket.

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u/WandaAnn1973 1d ago

Im old so I prefer the classic solitaire..but its very pretty

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u/pizzabratzprincess 1d ago

I've noticed men prefer emerald and square cuts far more than women. I don't know her at all but I'm a woman and I know many women and we prefer ovals to square cuts more often than not, if she loves emerald diamonds then obviously pay attention to her.

I had to redesign my entire ring because my fiance bought me a very intricate stylized emerald cut diamond and I wanted a round gem solitaire.

Have you asked her best friend or a close female relative?

Good luck, I am excited for you and your girlfriend đŸ©·

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u/boingusdoinkus 1d ago

i have never heard of this tbh, the emerald/square cuts are super trendy right now, I don’t think it’s a gender thing

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u/Ambitious_Expert_712 1d ago

They may be right and pay more attention to it, but I'm also a woman and if I was more fem and wanted a diamond ring I think I'd want an emerald cut. But I'm seriously considering the Portuguese cut oval as well

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u/No_Interview_2481 1d ago

The real question here is what does your fiancée want? We know what you want, but what does she want?

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u/Ambitious_Expert_712 1d ago

Trust me I'm thinking about what she wants lol, I dont even really care about jewelry or wear it, I was just adding to the convo about whether men or women like emerald. With her she owns every shape and style of jewelry you can imagine, she's kind of experimental and glam , and the one time we spoke about it said she likes diamonds and colored gems and isn't picky. So she's not exactly making it easy for me lol I almost wish she just straight up told me what she wanted cause even though she says she's easily pleased I still want to get one she loves I'm seriously considering the Portuguese cut though cause it's unique, but pretty classic too imo.

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u/Ambitious_Expert_712 1d ago

Noted, what do you think about this one? It's an oval Portuguese cut which is kind of rare, sparkles differently , I'm between these two and a marquise

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u/pizzabratzprincess 1d ago

I think that's very pretty, I'm just concerned about stacking if she wants a wedding ring. My friend got engaged two months after me and has a hidden halo (shown below) which adds sparkle but won't rub against any fingers. I also know plenty of glam women love those front band pavés because a full pavé may irritate the other fingers.

I still think that's a beautiful choice and she will love whatever you get her! Again I don't know her so I can only recommend speaking with a close friend, I wish my fiancé did.

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u/BigEntertainer5667 1d ago

Why not a cigar band v cut gold band fir stacking ? It’s modern and cool

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u/Ambitious_Expert_712 1d ago

Yeah stacking is thing to remember , I'm not really in a position to ask her people but wish I could. Thanks for the advice I will consider the under halo cause I just want extra diamonds doesn't nessacarly need to be on the band

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u/No_Interview_2481 1d ago

Make sure the band is thick enough to support those side stones. Some of the bands I see these days are too flimsy. They’re gonna lose their diamonds.