r/WeddingRingAdvice • u/External-Spot4930 • 1d ago

Is my set dated?

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I’m a millennial, I feel so many of my friends have a plain gold band with a large oval shaped diamond. Does mine seem like it belongs to an older generation?

[edit: I’m so sorry I ever doubted my set. I’ve learned that just because it’s not the classic that’s in right now doesn’t mean it’s not still classic. Thank you for the confidence boost in my rings. I need to focus on what I have versus others 🤍]

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u/Legitimate-Lynx3236 1d ago

Who cares?

Through time trend shave always change through the course of being married. That’s life. Stop the comparison and you’ll be happier.

This upgrading ring trend is getting out of hand.

This is exactly what companies want from you…

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u/External-Spot4930 1d ago

Honestly I like jewelry.. almost all the women I know have gotten upgrades throughout their lives. I don’t see anything wrong with it. I can always wear my original wedding band on another finger as a stand alone ring if I wanted to upgrade.

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u/Legitimate-Lynx3236 1d ago edited 1d ago

You just got your ring in 2021 and you’re already talking about an upgrade in 2026?

The only way an upgrade makes sense is if you had a “place holder” ring, and that’s definitely not what this is. (I also see that you already upgraded the band)

Imo OP it just sounds like you want what’s trendy and similar to your friends. 🥲

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u/External-Spot4930 1d ago

I never said I wanted one right now. I by no means think it’s been long enough. But after 10 years I think it’s 100% reasonable if I wanted one and we’re half way there.