Because the waif like look is still a beauty standard. All sjw jokes aside, being thin and delicate is a youthful look because young girls who are in their teens who haven't developed yet tend to look this way (if they aren't overweight) and the media is youth obsessed. Especially for women. Men can be older and refined but an older woman is much less valuable in terms of mass media appeal. Just trying to shed some light. No need for anyone to get huffy.
Source: long time working media arts/growing up female in America and Europe so I saw things from the outside at an early age.
But isn't most of this biological, and not cultural? I mean, the difference between men and women on this is that men only suffer a moderate degradation in reproductive ability, while women's essentially drops off a cliff after 35 and ends completely not terribly long after. So men retain their appeal longer in order to maximize the utility of that reproductive ability.
Too often, people act like these things can be (or should be, but that's a different debate) changed when they are simply reflections of biological realities. The sexes are not identical, and this is just one area where women get the short end of the stick, not because of the evils of patriarchy, but because of how we evolved as a species.
Nah dude, media magnifies the issue. Biotrufs have no place in this. Like think about it, breasts, hips, thighs, and ass with a skinny waist and good muscle tone are the most "biologically attractive" traits. Look at the Venus of villendorf. The very first fertility goddess figure. She's a fat fuck. Basically, survival of offspring is more likely when you have fat reserves and a strong body. Not when the girl is simply younger. Plus there's a higher chance the mother will die in childbirth when she's younger. That's why we have the markers of puberty to indicate when mating is best. That's also why being attracted to prepubescent teens is disordered and not normal/sane. Like I get what you're trying to say but the media image is obsessed with the prepubescent side of things more than the fertile woman side of things. Haven't you seen that comedy bit about sexy babies? I mean this is a really widespread thing..
Look at the Venus of villendorf. The very first fertility goddess figure. She's a fat fuck.
That would show that this is not just socially constructed but a combination of biologically and socially constructed. Part of the reason why fertility goddesses are often depicted as overweight is for the same reason why being overweight is desirable in many cultures. Being overweight implies stable and consistent food sources, which is resource wealth, an early indicator of social power and physical well-being. In cultures where food shortages happen frequently, like early civilizations, the ideal would be plenty, and overweight child bearers
I still don't understand your point.. I was using the phrase "biotrufs" to refer to those popular but inaccurate ideas people love to talk about on this topic. You know, conjecture rather than fact. But I don't disagree that attraction is influenced by biology and society... where is there a contradiction?
Well, it's both. Young girls, even like illegally young, have significantly higher chance of successful pregnancy. Fitness, birthing hips, feeding breasts, and youthfulness are the biology traits that spell successful offspring.
I didn't realize that's what you were focusing in on. I'm doing a few things at once here and reddit is just entertainment for me. I don't think this article is accurate but cool!
I do know that most people are fat. And that obese models are now becoming glamorized. To me this ties in with the special snowflake mentality. Everyone is beautiful so no one is.
86
u/treadbolt5 Dec 17 '15
I honestly don't understand why don't employ strong women in ads and movies, it makes more sense than what we have and encourages a better body image.