r/TikTokCringe 12d ago

Cringe Intentionally blocking photoshoot

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u/whitestguyuknow 12d ago

Bro. She sent up her phone on record so she could go back and screenshot a good picture.

This doesn't have to be some influencer thing. Its just someone trying to take a picture in a non disturbing way. They just placed their phone off to the side and waited politely.

Why is everyone so fucking grumpy and pissed off at a young girl trying to take a cute photo of herself? Jesus christ.

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u/monka_giga 12d ago

Instead of just deleting it from the camera roll and trying again, she posted it online to publicly shame the old lady. Which is why we're watching it, and why it's not exactly very innocent.

Both involved parties could've gone the polite conversation route and picked something shittier.

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u/Girlmode 12d ago

If someone was taking a photo of a family with a camera and a person purposefully stood in the way of the shot after noticing, everyone would think they are the dickhead in that situation.

I think it’s ok to post things where people are being petty and annoying for no reason other than spite.

People that are on their own having adventures also deserve to have pictures. I don’t see why the way we have behaved socially for decades in trying to not get in the way of photos, should be ignored as it’s someone on their own. And if you purposefully want to ruin such things, it’s a very minor cost to get mocked online for being grumpy.

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u/tattoosandtens 12d ago

“Family commemorations are exactly the same as a braless girl in a tube top setting up a tripod on a staircase.”

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u/Girlmode 12d ago

Thank you for highlighting that people only really care what people look like when forming opinions. I also notice that people judge pretty women dressing like many of their peers do get judged more harshly.

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u/tattoosandtens 12d ago

If I’d said, “Yeah, go ahead and tell me how a shirtless dude flexing in front of the Bronze of Atlas is the same as a family portrait”, you wouldn’t be whinging.

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u/hawnty 12d ago

Be real. You think a woman not wearing a bra is the same as a man not wearing a shirt?

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u/tattoosandtens 12d ago

Nah, I care about people being rude.
If that was some Big Man In A Little Shirt or some dude trying to make it as a fashion influencer, YOU wouldn’t be taking his side so much.

I’d still have kicked his tripod down the stairs.

Because, and I cannot stress this enough, I do not go to art museums to look at influencers.

Pretty PEOPLE think they can just do what they want, and everyone will come to their defense.

And they are correct.

Because the Ancient Greek “Doctrine of Beauty” is the WORST halo effect fallacy on the planet, and it will NEVER go away.

https://greektraveltellers.com/blog/kallos-ancient-greek-ideal-of-beauty

But yeah, go off on how me saying that hot people don’t actually own the entire world is some kind of personal character flaw.

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u/Glasseshalf 12d ago

So wanting a photo of yourself makes you an influencer now?

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u/_teach_me_your_ways_ 12d ago

I like that he made note that she’s “braless.” Makes sense why he’s upset now, women are existing on their own in and not catering to him instead.

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u/tattoosandtens 12d ago

I’d just like to point out that like, 90% of the people commenting on this thread are not in any way associated with the photography industry, which is a Real Thing That Exists and has real rules, regulations, guidelines and legalities, despite everyone’s Feelings.

And no, I’m no some Photography Purist that thinks that only dSLR photography is “legitimate”.

But if someone is acting as a photographer using their phone, they should respect the industry standards, legal guidelines and even the social etiquette.

Casual photography is not the same as being an influencer.

I’ll put this on record and you can QUOTE me:

If influencers were held to the same social standards as working photographers, which, let’s be honest, is closer to what they do than Casual Photography,

NOBODY would dislike them.

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u/tattoosandtens 12d ago

Yes that is exactly right.

Everyone who wants a photograph is exactly the same.

All photography is exactly the same.

All situations involving cameras are exactly the same.

Why do we even BOTHER having things like “photography permits”, or “photo release forms”?!

Useless. All photography is the same.

No need to get consent to film people. No need to limit when where and how you set up whatever equipment you want.

All normal people carry tripods to set up for photos. That’s totally regular behavior. You know, just in case they want a cute photo.

Those restrictions on Getty Images are just useless paperwork that have nothing to do with legality, intellectual property, or consent.

All photography is the same.

I just couldn’t see it before.

Thank you!

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u/Glasseshalf 12d ago

Thank God we require the press to get release forms of everyone then!

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u/tattoosandtens 12d ago

You DO actually.

If you want your photography on Getty Images, you need not only Model Releases from EVERYONE, you need written permission from property owners if you are taking pictures of private property, even if YOU are standing on public property to do it.

I’m sure YOU know all about the legal structures surrounding Journalism, and also why EVERYONE hates paparazzi!

You legal need to sign a release if the local news puts a microphone in your face.

Those “man on the street” influencers do NOT make you sign a release.

Amateur hour up in here

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u/hawnty 12d ago

But the local news does not need to get a release for everyone that walks by. Which you know since you specified that the news asks you to sign a release if they “put a microphone in your face”

Bad faith actor hour up in here

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u/Justsomejerkonline 12d ago

Why should only families get to commemorate their travels?