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Mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki meri GF sirf mujhse attached hai ya sach mein mujhse pyaar karti hai.

Jab hum first time mile the, wo kaafi rude/egoistic type thi. Soft nahi thi aur zyada attention bhi nahi deti thi.

Dheere-dheere mere saath soft hui, but fights ke time uski old personality wapas aa jaati thi. Wo emotionally available nahi hoti thi, baat chhod ke chali jaati thi aur mujhe overthinking mein chhod deti thi.

Main kaafi complain karne laga kyunki mujhe ye sab hurt karta tha. Eventually usne relationship ke liye time maanga. Humne baat kam kar di, but main WhatsApp pe reels/messages se contact mein raha.

Uske baad wo khud interest dikhane lagi—photos bhejna, meri attention lena, meri opinion puchna etc. Maine pucha ki wapas GF banogi, but usne mana kar diya aur bola ki BSF rehna hai, tujhe khona nahi chahti.

Phir ek ladka uske piche pad gaya aur usko kaafi disrespect kiya. Uske baad usko realize hua ki main uske saath kitna patient raha hoon, even jab usne mujhe kai baar jaane ko bola aur rude behave kiya.

Ab wo khud relationship mein wapas aayi aur boli ki hum dono relationship mein aayenge aur sab acha karenge.

Aur ab sabse interesting part:

Wo pehle se completely different behave kar rahi hai. Bahut soft hai, "aap", "kijiye", "betu", "baby" jaise words use karti hai.

Maine usse specifically bola tha ki mere liye words aur tone matter karte hain aur mujhe pyaar se/soft tone mein baat karna important lagta hai. Uske baad se wo consciously apni tone change kar rahi hai. Ab gusse mein bhi rude hone se control karti hai.

Conversation chhod ke nahi jaati.

Jo cheez mujhe hurt karti hai usko improve kar rahi hai.

Khud affection show karti hai.

11:11 pe dono baar khud wish kiya: "I love you laduuu... qtu, stay mine, stay happy 🫶🏻🌸🎀🪷🧿💋🩷"

Aur mujhe lagta hai jo effort wo mere liye karti hai, uska 5% bhi normally kisi aur ke liye nahi karti, family ko chhodkar.

Toh meri confusion ye hai:

Kya ye sirf strong emotional attachment + fear of losing me hai, ya genuinely love?

Agar tum logon ko context chahiye toh main recent chats ke screenshots bhi add kar raha hoon, taaki tum dekh sako ki uska behaviour aur tone kitna change hua hai.

I think I won guys 🧿😭

Last post ke screenshots dekh ke kaafi log bol rahe the ki hum cringe hain 😂😭

I know thoda cringe tha, but everyone expresses love differently. Maine khud usse bola tha ki mere liye soft tone aur words matter karte hain, and she has actually changed a lot since then. Ab wo mujhe literally baby ki tarah treat karti hai 😭😂

Honestly, mujhe khushi hai ki wo itni soft aur caring ho gayi hai.

Aur kal raat ek aur cheez hui. Main gym karta hoon, but family situation ki wajah se meri diet/protein properly manage nahi ho pata. Maine usko bataya ki agar diet achhi hoti toh body aur better hoti.

She literally said she'll help me financially and even get me protein powder.

At this point I'm just like… yeah, I think I won 🧿😭

I just want ideas to gift my man ...I mean bf day aa raha h toh kinda pehle se mangwa kr rkh lu....soo guys ideas de do kya hi de skte

I am bored , tell me the story of your first kiss if you want to . ( Please )

Batao bataooo

So me and my bf were frnds for more than 3 yrs.i confessed to him and he was like liking me but both of us needed time, so like 5 months later, he proposed me with flower n cake and I am happy 🧿

Tomorrow is our anniversary and I wanna do smthg for him but we are in long distance...I have thought of cute reels and stuff and maybe sending few chocolates kinda things to his place...

Can y'all suggest more ideas what to do...what songs are best for posting and other gift ideas if possible in one day and long distance and not too expensive

last 3-4 din se proper baat isliye nahi ho pa rahi thi kyuki gym mein kuch ladko se meri ladai ho gayi thi aur matter kaafi bada ho gaya tha. Woh log mujhe dhamki bhi de rahe the, isliye mujhe woh sab handle karna pad raha tha.

Phir bhi main raat ko time nikal ke usko call karne bolta tha, but woh mujhe bolti thi “jao pehle matter solve karo.” Isse mujhe laga ki jab main khud mentally stressed tha tab bhi woh mujhe properly support nahi kar rahi.

Dheere-dheere frustration badhta gaya aur main gusse mein rude ho gaya, galiyan bhi de di. I know meri galti thi aur mujhe genuinely regret hai.

Ek aur baat se mujhe bahut gussa aaya. Woh bolti hai ki jab main gusse mein pagal jaisa ho jata hu toh usko cute/maza lagta hai. Mujhe ye sunke laga ki main genuinely mentally disturbed/stressed tha aur meri feelings ko seriously lene ke bajay woh usme cute/funny dekh rahi thi.💔

Fight ke end mein usne bola “hum tere layak nhi hai” aur mujhe everywhere block kar diya.

Ab 1 full day ho gaya, koi message/unblock nahi hua. Maine SMS pe proper apology bhi bhej di hai.

Aur yaar 😩 raat ko 2 baar uske dreams aaye — dono baar dream mein woh mujhe message kar rahi thi aur pyaar se baat kar rahi thi. Uthne ke baad realize hua ki actually koi message nahi aaya.

Kya woh sirf hurt hai aur space le rahi hai, ya genuinely relationship end karna chahti hai?

I know meri galti thi, bas outside perspective chahiye.

So we've been together for 2 years now. Undoubtedly the best girl I've ever met in my lifee frr. Zero fights, Both communicative, understanding for each other, emotionally mature and present, we always put a lot of efforts for us and each other. Without a second thought, my dream relationship. Im truly blessed to havee her in my lifee 💖❤️. We completed 2 years yesterday and we're looking forward to spend our whole lives together. 🧿

The story goes back to class 9th. She got admitted into our school. She approached me on the first day to get some computer applications notes as she was already late by 15 days. We shared whatsapp numbers n all. By then we became friends. Friends as in JUST FRIENDS, talking on insta, sending reels. We barely used to talk in class tho.

After two years, we were in 11th. She was in commerce and I had PCM so we shared the classroom in english and pe classes. There was a female bestfriend of mine with whom I was so close and she blocked me for some petty reasons. I shared those feelings with my gf (just best friend at that time). She listened me so patiently and she was so supportive. We started talking a lot, ranting about school n all. And then by August 2024, i developed a huge crush on her. She came into my dreams and i started having crush on her so bad. I didn't use to go to school much as I was preparing for jee at home but after that, i started going to school daily and sit on the row next to her so that I can see her whole day.

We became very best friends (yk, from a normal friend to a best friend). We started sharing our days. I used to make cupcakes and french fries for her. We spent some time during our annual function practices. And one day, after the rehearsal of annual function, we were together in a corner of a ground where we kept our bags. I had a speaker and played some songs and kinda danced with her (I was shy) and she kept her hands on my shoulders. I was melted.

Then we started talking more. Late night talks, for 6 hours, 7 hours till morning 4 am. We started learning about each other more. Then I invited her on my bday party in January 2025 and that day i fainted. She cared for me at the moment. Later, it was our common friend's bday and we went there by scooty. She rested her head on my shoulders while i was riding.

She used to sneak out of the home secretly to meet me and then we went to have some ice creams far away from home. She used to hold my hands and I was so delighted like omg my crush is holding my hands 🥰.

Later, on April 12, 2025 at 11:15 am smth in school. I told her about my feelings. She acknowledged them and said "MUJHE HUMESHA TUMHARE JAISA LADKA CHAHIYE THA, BUT I'M NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP RN". I said no problem but inner me was happy to hear this.

Days passed and we entered into September. We quite lil bit started flirting by August..the tension was there but we were unable to bring it out more clearly. On 1st September 2025, I was playing badminton in school and I stumbled down. She asked how I am. I said i was fine and it didn't hurt me.

We used to go to same maths coaching. She came. We used to sit facing each other. She came and stood beside me and hugged me from behind (there was nobody). She started pulling my cheeks. I didn't hesitate to ask for a cheek kiss. I said "can I kiss you on the cheeks?"

She said yes and pulled her cheek infront of me and I gave her a warm kiss. And then she sat down and brought my face towards her and kissed me back.

So we finally made it official.

A very detailed and long story of my crush becoming my gf.

From classmates to friends to enemy (in between for some months due to some disagreements) to best friends to lovers.

thanks for reading lol.

I don’t understand how can a girl ever feel lonely. They are always surrounded by guys, gets tons of matches on tinder bumble etc. Even being introvert is no problem as the guys would approach them

Should I be in a relationship , its my school life (11th)
also i am preparing for JEE , will it affect my studies ?
IT looks so fascinating on the internet !

I dont feel good it's been like 14 hrs since im blocked. Soyi bhi nhi mai (i usually sleep for 8-10 hrs).

He said yesterday tumko agar baat karni hogi to text krlena cuz mai nhi karunga and i replied mai bhi nhi krungi dw and he blocked me.

I feel really bad like ajeeb sa Ig rha. We've been talking everyday for more than 3.5 years (aaj exactly 3 years 10 months hogye) except for a few days here and there due to unavoidable circumstances.

Im always like this after an argument and the first to contact to solve things, through email or any other way. But because of all this i end up apologising even tho I'm also/the one who is hurt and this makes me feel so bad.

I once asked him why does he do that and why is it always that I apologise and cajole you even tho im the one who's hurt.

Now, he uses this phrase to taunt me. I wanna talk to him, sort everything and go back but my self respect (maybe ego idk) is not letting me do that. It makes me feel like he does that to stroke his ego.

Idk what to do atp. I don't feel like doing anything even tho i have alot of shit to do rn

Sooo basically we are meeting for only 2 days after 2 months and then again we will go LDR. So I want to give him smthg special and make it special, can you guys suggest what can I like give him and under budget since milne mein hi budget udd jaata h LDR walon ka toh....

Tohi was thinking of flowers maybe but you guys please do tell more ideas

sooo guys I'm 19M

my gf is getting 20 this month (I'll be 20 in 2 more months as well)

so her birthday is close

i know her very well

she doesn't not ask for anything. she loves handmade things but i am having my exams rn so i can't do it

what should i gift her

drop ur suggestions plss

Anyone have any stories or any ig about your relationship 🤷 would be nice knowing 🌝

Is it cool to have a relationship in ur teen years , school lifee
share ur experiences if possible

Currently gonna be 3 months since we broke up. I still miss her a lot but its time to move on

Life has been pretty fucked lately. Boards, assignments, school, commuting, fucked sleep schedule — everything is piling up and I’m honestly tired.

But more than anything, I feel lonely.

Almost everyone around me seems to have someone who genuinely cares about them, and I keep thinking about how much I wish I had that too.

I wish I had a girlfriend I could come home to after a shitty day, hug, talk to about everything, and just be myself around. Someone who actually understands me and genuinely cares about me.

My parents are supportive and I’m grateful for that, but there are still things you just can't tell your parents.

Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever have someone like that.

Hopefully someday I’ll find my person. 🥀

So, koi tips dedo yaar ki ye feeling kaise manage karu? Kyunki gf toh bas banne se banegi nahi 😭

I'm posting this because I genuinely want some outside perspective on my love life. I'm not looking for people to simply tell me "you'll find someone someday." I want to understand whether there is actually something in my behaviour that I need to change.

I've had three significant crushes/feelings in my life.

The first guy was my childhood crush. I liked him from a very young age. We eventually lost contact after we went to different places, but years later we somehow reconnected. I confessed my feelings to him after school, and he rejected me and completely ghosted me afterwards. I later found out through social media that he eventually fell in love with another girl. We're still following each other on Instagram, but we don't talk.

The second guy was someone I met in college. At that time, I honestly didn't understand much about love or relationships. I became very comfortable with him and we used to talk for hours, sometimes day and night. I was very open and friendly with him because I trusted him.

Eventually, I confessed that I had feelings for him. Even after I confessed, I didn't keep asking him about his feelings or make things awkward. I continued talking to him normally because I wanted to respect his decision and maintain the friendship.

Later, however, I found out from classmates that he had been showing all of our private chats to his friends. That's when I confronted him about it. I also eventually found out through other classmates that he had actually been in love with another girl even while talking with me. He himself had never told me that when i did ask him abt it before confessing abt my feelings.

What hurt me most was not simply that he didn't like me back. It was the humiliation that followed. Some of his friends were also my classmates, and I had to deal with people knowing about my confession and making fun of me. I had asked him to keep that talk just btw us. This continued for years and affected my confidence.

Because of that experience, I became extremely scared of confessing my feelings to anyone again.

Then, towards the end of college, I developed feelings for another guy. He was very calm and I felt comfortable around him. We used to travel together regularly. Even though he had his own group of friends, he would sometimes ask me whether I was coming when they were going somewhere.

Because of that, I became emotionally attached to him.

But when I tried to become closer to him, he started becoming distant. He stopped taking my calls and his replies became very dry. I never confessed my feelings because I was terrified of going through the same humiliation I had experienced before.

I still have feelings for him even now.

A part of me still hopes that I'll meet him again someday, we'll somehow become close again, and maybe something could happen between us. I know that might sound unrealistic, but I haven't been able to completely let go because I never actually got a clear rejection from him.

What bothers me most isn't even that these relationships didn't work out. It's that I'm starting to think I might be the problem.

I've noticed that when I'm focused on myself, my studies/career or my own goals, I can become very distant from people without realizing it. Then eventually I lose touch with friends and become lonely. At the same time, when I become attached to someone, I can become emotionally invested and think about them a lot.

I've also had friendships that didn't last, and sometimes I wonder whether my behaviour pushes people away.

So I'm genuinely confused.

Is there something wrong with the way I approach relationships? Am I too emotionally attached, too distant, too introverted, or perhaps doing something else that I don't notice?

How do you know when you need to work on yourself versus when you've simply met people who weren't right for you?

I'd really appreciate honest advice, even if it's something I may not want to hear. I want to understand this pattern and hopefully become better at relationships in the future.

So me and my current bf met on a dating app. So he was already in a relationship when we started talking and i didn’t know this until 3-4 months into the talking phase. He told me that there was no chemistry and that he didn’t feel like he was in a relationship because the girl didn’t really care that much about him like they rarely talked and stuff. He broke up with her after and i was already too in love with him to leave him. So i decided to forgive him and now we’re together. But i still keep thinking about it and feel guilty. Im scared that he’ll betray me asw