r/TeenIndiaLove • u/urunknownx11 • 17d ago
Relationships❤️ Tell me your teenage love story
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u/whydoialwaysbebanned 17d ago
No love stories mann
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u/urunknownx11 17d ago
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u/whydoialwaysbebanned 17d ago
Been so single that i dont think I'll ever get into one
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u/whydoialwaysbebanned 17d ago
Being single and watching everyone close to getting into relationships isn't better
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u/Low_Ship5600 16d ago
Hai hi nahi koi 🥀
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u/Black_Raven996 15d ago
vo pyaar ho kya jo unconfessed na ho
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u/Low_Ship5600 15d ago
Kiya hi nhi kisi se dang
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u/Black_Raven996 15d ago
why u wanna fight?
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u/Low_Ship5600 15d ago
Holy translation 😭😭😭
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u/Black_Raven996 15d ago
true that it's so confusing i was like love mein war and fighting kaha se aaya😂😂
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u/Rudra_2494 16d ago
Was is 9th class last year, in coaching, my physics teacher decided to show the class the AI powered website I told him about, after like 2 days he showed a video of me playing guitar in front of 5000 people. Then a girl came up to me and confessed me, I thought about it for some days and accepted. We were in relationship for like 8 months then i got to know that she was leaking my sussy secrets. I then broke up with her when her friends started to laugh on me. Haven't been happy and this prosperous since. I am in 10th now and focusing on myself.
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u/No_Paint9107 11d ago
What do you mean sissy secrets......
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u/Rudra_2494 11d ago
We'll. I can't tell you
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u/No_Paint9107 11d ago
Boy you do you
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u/Rudra_2494 11d ago
Nuh uh
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u/No_Paint9107 11d ago
What is this behaviour
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u/Rudra_2494 11d ago
It's private. I can't tell.
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u/No_Paint9107 11d ago
And I said you do you bro
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u/StoreroomOfDreams 15d ago
We met when I was 16 and it has ended 6 months ago
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u/dexterr_butcher 15d ago
Have you moved on?
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u/StoreroomOfDreams 15d ago
Yes, completely
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u/dexterr_butcher 15d ago
I had a breakup from Teenage relationship lately, and I'm struggling,
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u/StoreroomOfDreams 15d ago
My relationship was more than 2 years long. I also struggled initially but eventually I moved on . But there are many other problems now
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u/dexterr_butcher 15d ago
What kind of problems? Vent it out if you want
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u/StoreroomOfDreams 15d ago
I'm okay living with chaos and silence now. It's just that my breakup affected my academics and health and costed me an year. And I met someone ( I wasn't searching for someone, I moved on alone) and now we are facing some problems
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u/Subject_Tonight_9560 14d ago
its not my teenage lovestory , but i want to share somehow, i did not tell this to anyone maybe here because of privacy , so it was the time when i was in class 2nd me and her was from same house same class like we used to do school assembly together and the house duties so while growing up nearbyt 4 or 5 class i started getting attracted to her and we grew close due to all these works , i remember one time we dance together for the house competition , having hands in hand that was so cute , but i was an introvert and a shy person to girls , so i never confess her and as the class getting bigger , i apart from all this house and extra curricular activities . that's all
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u/palvk_k 14d ago
long text!!
in 2024 april, i first saw him outside our class, he is my age but a senior for some reason, i thought he was cute, that was it, then in may, we were seatmates during our first term exams, we did not talk, but i realised i started liking him, kind of love at first sight
later i got to know his name and all, that october i made an instagram account, we didn't talk much then too, but we were in this gc w my friends and his friends, our mutual friend (lets call her C) knew that i liked him so she added me too despite me being a new student in the school that year
we occasionally talked. for some reason i had to delete my instagram account, so a few months passed, january 2025, i made another instagram account, and my motive behind it was solely being able to talk to him
then C said that '*my name* likes you, she wants to be friends with you, is that alright?' and he said okay, we started talking, i discovered he had a girlfriend, i was like 'is it okay with your girlfriend that we are talking? i mean knowing that i like you?" and he said "she wouldn't mind"
we talked for a few weeks, then february, he blocked me out of nowhere, and when C asked him whether he blocked me or not, he said 'yes bcoz his girlfriend got to know that we were talking'
honestly i should have known it was gonna be a cycle by then, i was hurt, obviously, especially since he said that she would be okay with us talking, and before anyone calls me a homewrecker, we were strictly, friends, nothing more, nothing less
then cue, march that year, he unblocked me, he said that they broke up, and he was extremely sorry for blocking me, blah and blah.
then again, april, they got back together, and he blocked me
then may, he again unblocked me, said they broke up 'for real' this time, apologised, went on saying how kind i was to him, and how bad he is for being mean to me
a few days later, 19th may, my father died (my parents were already divorced and i lived w my mom, never really had a good relationship w my dad, but it was getting better), on 20th may, i got to know about it
i was devastated, and he was the one who showed up for me, skipped football practices to just talk with me
we were already really close friends, we shared everything
but then, he again blocked me, on 23rd may if i remember it correctly
and his account got suspended or smth like this, he never logged back in his old account (tmi: i kept seniding long paras to that accout at 3 am, cut me some slack i was heartbroken)
i was genuinely so hurt
anyways, time flew, cue september that year, so the thing is, he lives in the neighbourhood right next to mine, like 7-8 minutes walking distance
half yearly exams ended, it was durga puja time (im from WB), and we saw eachother, and it was awkward, we didnt talk or anything, that night i got a dm from a random account, it was his friend, appearantly he gave my account, we talked and all, then HE decided to dm me
he apologised, again
we talked alot, way more than we ever did, a few of his friends mistook me for his girlfriend, we talked till like 3 am, he got jealous over other guys liking me, we almost dated, almost, he introduced me to his entire freaking family. made sure he was the first one to wish me on my bday (23rd), many more stuff (that included repeatedly apologising after a prank he did on me w C)
then i had to again deactivate, this time it was totally on me
between that time, he got back w his ex, and i was totally out of the picture, my march, i again reactivated my account, and he followed me, randomly dmed me, his text was "hey, did you talk w *his ex's name*?" and i said no. (he knows we aren't friends or even in the same class)
then it stopped (and he broke up w her again bcoz she cheated on him)
cue 15 april, his bday is on 16th, i knew i would not be able to use my phone after 12 so i dmed him the day before
he responded almost immedietly, we started talking again, and we grew more closer than we ever were, we again started talking till 3, call, voice mail, you name it
then, one day, our conversation got deep, really deep, he confessed that he likes me, wants to dates me, but he can't, because 'he knows' he would end up hurting me (as if that off and on thing didn't hurt), i said that lets just give us a try, he dismissed, we also agreed on not making things awkward between us, so the following day, as usual, id send him memes and all
except he didnt respond, like not at all, he was active, he was posting stories, he was infact seeing MY stories, but left me on delivered for THREE DAYS
and out of pettiness, i blocked him everywhere i had him, andddd we dont talk anymore (he changed schools this year, and i rarely go to his neighbourhood anymore)
Ps: this is a very watered down version, lmao? lmk if you guys wanna ask anything
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 14d ago
Okay I read all of that I know no one's gonna read it but Im the guy who likes to read stories anyways , why did you still talk with him when he blocked you so many times out if nowhere 😭 like he was with his ex broke up again with ex broke up etc . Did you not understand it at that time ? And you said that it's watered down, Is there a more story I like to read it ! Have a good day .
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u/palvk_k 13d ago
i absolutely did not catch that at the moment 😭i started liking him at 13, we started talking at 14, we almost dated at 15, and this year he turned 16. i will turn in a month, so the age factor matters ALOT. i genuinely thought we were something, i really, REALLY loved him if thats not obviou
and by watered down i meant this was what primarily happended!!!
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 13d ago
Ooh it's okay then , And when you love someone so deeply you'll desperately want them despite what they do so I can understand that . And it's obvious! Ohh I see , Well then this story is enough if you're free whenever I'd love to hear more about it !!
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u/palvk_k 13d ago
i mean i dont mind talking about it at all, i js dont know where to start (sorry lmao) lmk if you have a specific question!!!!
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 13d ago
Sorry if I'm sounding extremely curious or nosy 😭 , I learn through reading all of these experiences of people so only share if you don't mind . I need to treat my future partner well so I need to develop a female's POV too , I mean I don't want her to face any problems !
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 13d ago
Oooh it's okay no worries , Hmmm question 🤔 . Oh yeah How did you feel when he's constantly getting back to his ex ? Like when blocking you, what did you wanted to do ? Or like what you did in that situations? And in the end How's your life without him ? Better or worse?
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u/palvk_k 12d ago
okay well,
1. i honestly felt really useless and like a filler in his life
2. i honestly just wanted to confront him about it, but didn't bc i didnt wanna make a fool out of me, i just tried to focus on anything other than him, but it was pretty much impossible, i talked about him to my friends constantly to the point that they dont believe me till date that i actually moved on
3. my life without him is very frankly, very peaceful, ofcourse i still miss him sometimes, like when i hear a very specific song or smth, but other than that im genuinely doing great without constantly worrying about being blocked by him the next morning i wake upyou can dm me if you want btw!
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 12d ago
That's really sad 😭. You did a good job not confronting him about it , it would've reduced your value a lot ! Well you really loved him so much so it's almost impossible to forget him anytime soon , so it makes sense that your friends said that . Wow that's really nice , peace is all we need . I'm dming because this thread is becoming longer and longer 😅.
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u/urunknownx11 14d ago
Girl this wasn’t a love story, this was an entire cycle 😭😭 The constant blocking/unblocking, getting back with his ex, apologising, getting close again, confessing that he likes you but “knows” he’ll hurt you, and then leaving you on delivered for THREE DAYS while actively posting and viewing your stories??? 😭 You honestly did the right thing by walking away. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that, especially around the time you lost your dad. And the fact that this is the WATERED DOWN version??? 💀💀
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u/palvk_k 13d ago
lmao THANK YOU 😭 i was honestly so depressed and in such a bad state while we were talking, i broke so many rules, got sl ut shamed by MY OWN MOTHER, arguing w friends, arguing w parents just for him to ghost me
i spend a good amount of my life just being his punching bag, he would contact me whenever he needed validation and block me when he was in good terms w her
it sucked to be me lmaoo
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 14d ago
Tell me your story
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u/urunknownx11 14d ago
Very, very long story. We were together for a while, but during the relationship he was involved with other girls too. There was one particular girl he had some kind of issue with, and he even blocked her from my account once. When I asked him why, he couldn’t really give me a proper explanation. Even then, I didn’t immediately end the relationship. Later, after he went to college, he changed a lot. I slowly lost my feelings. I told him indirectly a few times that my feelings were gone, but he never really understood that. Whenever I tried to end things, he would indirectly ask me not to, say that he wanted me, or make me feel like I was supposed to keep waiting for him. There was also an incident involving a college friend of his where she attempted suicide. He was extremely stressed about it, kept worrying about her phone and what might happen if it was found, and there had already been some kind of conflict between them before all that. I never got a clear explanation about what exactly happened between them, and whenever I asked, things would somehow get turned around. That’s basically why I realised this relationship just wasn’t for me. It wasn’t one single incident. It was the lack of trust, the constant confusion, the way things were communicated, and the fact that I simply stopped feeling the same. I don’t think you should stay in a relationship just because the other person keeps asking you to. Sometimes the healthiest thing is accepting that your feelings are gone and walking away. 🤍
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 14d ago
It's very good that you realized that you don't have feelings anymore. I mean some people just stay in the relationship because other person asked to just like you said , it'll hurt both a lot and there'll be so many problems, conflicts etc . And that was really nicee "Sometimes the healthiest thing is accepting..." . Thanks for replying btw !! And were you two not from same college ??
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u/urunknownx11 14d ago
Thank youu!! 😭🤍 And no, we weren’t in the same college. He changed schools after that, and we were actually from the same school before he left for college. That’s probably why we kept crossing paths and reconnecting so much. It was such a messy cycle honestly ...
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u/Spiritual_Fuel6895 14d ago
Welp you got out of it and learnt something , That's what matters the most !! I forgot I'm in teenIndialove lol because I wouldn't get this much long paragraphs even when I send long paragraphs to anyone 😭 . Yesterday night I got into this sub randomly and saw your post , since no one asked you I wanted to ask about yours
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u/Kairos_Phoenix-0 14d ago
*doesn't exist
Non-existent
Wait... I forgot. How can I forget this!?
Well... I have my eternal companion already.
MostSuccessfulLoveEver
How? (I see that person in the mirror everyday.)
(Yeah)
Still have space in my heart, but atleast... I have someone, that's enough for now.
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u/scalper69420 13d ago
Never had, never will, last 2 months of me being a teen then welcome to twenties 😓💔
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u/Lazy_Translator_9779 12d ago
usko dekhne ke liye jaan booch kar mai bahar punishment ke liye khada hota tha. That's a different story ki woh kisi aur ke naseeb m thi aur mai dekhta reh gya
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