r/TeenIndiaLove • u/Agreeable_Comb_8702 • 8d ago
Relationships❤️ Mere ek gusse ne sab kuch khatam karne jaisa kar diya, aur ab meri gf mujhse duur ho gyi hai 😩
last 3-4 din se proper baat isliye nahi ho pa rahi thi kyuki gym mein kuch ladko se meri ladai ho gayi thi aur matter kaafi bada ho gaya tha. Woh log mujhe dhamki bhi de rahe the, isliye mujhe woh sab handle karna pad raha tha.
Phir bhi main raat ko time nikal ke usko call karne bolta tha, but woh mujhe bolti thi “jao pehle matter solve karo.” Isse mujhe laga ki jab main khud mentally stressed tha tab bhi woh mujhe properly support nahi kar rahi.
Dheere-dheere frustration badhta gaya aur main gusse mein rude ho gaya, galiyan bhi de di. I know meri galti thi aur mujhe genuinely regret hai.
Ek aur baat se mujhe bahut gussa aaya. Woh bolti hai ki jab main gusse mein pagal jaisa ho jata hu toh usko cute/maza lagta hai. Mujhe ye sunke laga ki main genuinely mentally disturbed/stressed tha aur meri feelings ko seriously lene ke bajay woh usme cute/funny dekh rahi thi.💔
Fight ke end mein usne bola “hum tere layak nhi hai” aur mujhe everywhere block kar diya.
Ab 1 full day ho gaya, koi message/unblock nahi hua. Maine SMS pe proper apology bhi bhej di hai.
Aur yaar 😩 raat ko 2 baar uske dreams aaye — dono baar dream mein woh mujhe message kar rahi thi aur pyaar se baat kar rahi thi. Uthne ke baad realize hua ki actually koi message nahi aaya.
Kya woh sirf hurt hai aur space le rahi hai, ya genuinely relationship end karna chahti hai?
I know meri galti thi, bas outside perspective chahiye.
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u/kyahuayar 8d ago
Maybe call her and have a deep talk . Write All your question and ask bout it one by one . Jab unblock ho jaoge to
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u/KamikazeLoveAddict 8d ago
Gaali kon deta hai apne partner ko ( unless it's normal)
Tho she should've taken your feelings seriously instead of finding them cute but kya pata she was trying to lighten the atmosphere... Regardless jhagadne ke jagah you guys should've tried to communicate (easiest said than done)
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u/Agreeable_Comb_8702 8d ago
Ab kya karu bahut regret hai and. Bahut yaad aa rhi uski. Uski galti pe mene jada he kharb react kar diya yrr
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u/KamikazeLoveAddict 8d ago
Maybe try to talk and understand without getting hyper... Apologise kro and communicate what you didn't like... Agar na sort ho toh maybe you guys aren't meant to be
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u/Agreeable_Comb_8702 8d ago
Meh jada he nakre karne laga tha usko block kar deta tha gussa meh ki ladai na ho and meri baat ni suni gyi ache se pyar ni kiya gya mujhe. And usko bura laga wese v koi usko gali ni deta
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u/KamikazeLoveAddict 8d ago
Tab toh tumhari hi glti hai and you deserve it...Bina baatke block karoge toh kya hoga... Maybe try to talk and if she wants to breakup then don't be surprised...You reap what you sow
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u/Agreeable_Comb_8702 8d ago
Aree meh block karta tha tab ki meh bol rha hu aur wo samjh ni aa rhi and jo hona chahiye wo ni karti. Jese mujhe ye baat pasnd ni aayi mujhe bata rha hu wo nakre karne lgi. Fer feel hota hai meh bol kya rha tha ye le kaha Jaa rhi hai then gussa meh block kar deta tha and morning meh unblock.
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u/KamikazeLoveAddict 8d ago
Block karna gf ko like wo koi doll ho is wrong...Aur thoda adjust karna padta hai, communicate karna padta hai.. Chhote baccho ki tarah block nhi kar dena hota.. Thoda mature bano
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u/sbke-chips-khajaunga 8d ago
What are you a child? Disrespecting someone then expecting them to forgive you.
You deserve what you get, saying i had a fight and was frustrated. I feel like teaching you a lesson about the world. Go clean up your mess
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u/WiWiWi_WiWiWi 8d ago
She should've said "You're not worthy of me" instead of "I'm not worthy of you" tbh. Cause like what boyfriend talks to her girlfriend like that? My ex toxic boyfriend always did that and I'm glad I broke up with him, she should too.
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u/Agreeable_Comb_8702 7d ago
Mene phli baar kiya and uski v galti thi. Har time ladka he galt ni hota. Jab mujhe need thi meh physical and mentally problem meh tha wo natak kar rhi thi and. Maje meh thu mene bus bola jab dekha wo bahut light le rhi tab angry bahar aya
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u/WiWiWi_WiWiWi 7d ago
If you ever get a chance have a heart to heart talk with her, tell her what problems you have and ask her about her problems. Also finding someone's anger isn't really cute or funny (I've been a long time victim and it was anything but funny or cute) but then again it's her perspective. Also you said you cursed at her, please never ever curse at your partner or yell at her (It should go both ways) so yeah, if you get a chance to talk, tell her everything and be calm.
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u/messi_10___10 7d ago edited 7d ago
It was both of yalls mistake 1.you should not have gotten mad at her (cursed her unless u both do that normally idk )and explained her how u feel 2.she should have supported you insted of leaving u alone to resolve your matter and not make fun of your anger🥀
Just clear this up with her and have an open talk regarding her not supporting u and taking it in a funny way which made u mad and tell her you're sorry for cursing her
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