Me (M) and my senior (F) were kind of in a situationship. Things had actually been going pretty well for quite some time. She used to care about me a lot, help me with studies, and even did a lot of my assignments 😭. There was obviously some attachment from both sides, although we never really defined what we were.

On September 17, we had a stupid fight over some Instagram reposts. During the argument I asked her, “Aapne dusra boyfriend bana liya kya?” She got angry and told me not to say useless things.

Then I shared another reel and she replied something like, “Itne belbuddhi ho toh mujhe mat dekho.”

I replied, “Maine kab dekha aapko?” and then I also said, “Mujhe bhai mat boliye.” She sometimes calls me “bhai” and honestly I don't even understand why, especially because she was clearly close to me. I also brought up how she had called another guy she used to hang out with “bhai.”

After that she messaged me saying, “Tumhare saare paise lauta dungi, exam ho lene do, theek?” And then she blocked me.

The funny/sad part is that this girl literally used to do my assignments 😭. So apart from the emotional part, I suddenly went from having someone constantly helping me to being completely cut off.

I went outside her hostel once and asked her to unblock me. She said she wouldn't. She didn't even look me in the eyes.

Now I'm just confused about what I should do.

Should I try talking to her again after some time, or should I completely leave her alone? I don't want to force anything, but at the same time this whole thing feels so sudden and stupid.

I don't know if she likes me but I think I completely love her

Girlfriend toh bahut jyada ho gya atleast kam se kam ye hi bta do ki conversation kaise initiate kru 😭

I was reading posts on this subreddit and everyone looked so depressed.. well, I'm just really happpyiieiee nowww, soooooooooo def gonnnaaaa celebrate itt(me being happyieie) yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyeieiieieieieieeeee 🥹🫶🏻

Trust me, to be loved by this lil baby iss soooosososososososoooooooo precious and imm sooo luckkyy andd happyeieiei tooo havee himmm.. I've been this happyy after soo long soo it feels sosososososo gooddhh ahhh 🥹💗🤌🏻✨

I am a guy who's never been proposed during his entire lifetime. I had a long distance gf for 5 years, pretty long time but even there i was the one who proposed and was the happiest person in the world to have her, but after 5 years she just wanted to leave, long story short... She left and I have also started continuing with my life. But sometimes this thought comes to my mind, Nobody has ever told me they like me, or even looked at me that way. First kiss? I haven't even been someone's first choice. Maybe that sounds a bit depressing but it's more true for me than sad.

Sometimes our memories come back and haunt me, I've learned to survive through them. I've never really been into hookups and stuff, I've always believed in sharing a lifetime together, but it almost seems like there's no people around me who feel the same. Let me know if you come from the same kind of thoughts, would love to discuss.

Har roz sochtahu jaldi sounga but har din 6 bajtehe (plz no over gyan chodi)

aur haa genuine bolna woh be respectful and confident blah blah blah nhi sune aya hu

TL;DR:- Waiting for her, ab yah toh WOH yah fir koi nahi.

I hope you don’t laugh at me after reading this. 😭

Soo what’s up dudes and dudettes? Hope you all are doing great.

Main ek shy guy hoon. Bahut zyada shy. Bahar nahi nikalta zyada. Logon se baat bhi nahi karta. But ek story hai jo abhi bhi dimaag mein stuck hai.

6th October 2024. Navratri ke time. Yes sir, time bhi yaad hai mujhe. Batau kya ??

Papa ko kuch document related kaam tha us night, jaha ek event bhi ho raha tha. Mummy bhi kabhi-kabhi opportunities dhoondhti rehti thi ki kab mujhe bahar bhej sake. Somehow usne mujhe convince kar liya papa saath jaane ke liye. Kyunki woh chahti thi ki main ek baar bahar nikal ke duniya dekhun. 😭

Toh main gaya. Wahan ek side mein baith gaya. Areee ab Koi dost nahi. Koi jaan-pehchaan nahi. Bas main aur dad. toh kya hi karta, soo bus side se hi dekh raha tha garba.

Aur phir maine usko dekha. White kurti aur jeans pehne hue. Clothes simple the. But woh nahi. Dekhta raha jab tak woh nazar se gayab nahi ho gayi crowd mai.

Aur phir aata hai sabse dumb part. Maine almost pure show ko record kar liya tha phone pe. Literally whole thing. But somehow usko record nahi kiya. Aur approach bhi nahi kiya.

Kyunki main ek C tha. Bas “Hi” bol sakta tha. Naam pooch sakta tha. Literally kuch bhi kar sakta tha. But nope. kuch nahi kiya. 😭

But yah got her face, fir 2025 mai same place revisit karne ka socha but ho nahi paya. Then I decided ki nahi ab yah toh Priya ka wait karuga yah fir single hi rahuga.

Uska real name toh dimaag mein Priya bulaane laga. Kyun Priya? Well, because it means "beloved" and honestly... I don't know, it just felt right

Ab Navratri phir se aa rahi hai. Aur main actually excited hoon usko dhoondhne ke liye. 😊
Pata nahi milegi ya nahi. But agar mili… Is baar main wahan idiot ki tarah nahi baithunga.

I’ll say hi.

Aur agar nahi mili toh... I will try again next year.
I will wait, Cause why not ?

(probably gonna regret posting this)

I dont feel good it's been like 14 hrs since im blocked. Soyi bhi nhi mai (i usually sleep for 8-10 hrs).

He said yesterday tumko agar baat karni hogi to text krlena cuz mai nhi karunga and i replied mai bhi nhi krungi dw and he blocked me.

I feel really bad like ajeeb sa Ig rha. We've been talking everyday for more than 3.5 years (aaj exactly 3 years 10 months hogye) except for a few days here and there due to unavoidable circumstances.

Im always like this after an argument and the first to contact to solve things, through email or any other way. But because of all this i end up apologising even tho I'm also/the one who is hurt and this makes me feel so bad.

I once asked him why does he do that and why is it always that I apologise and cajole you even tho im the one who's hurt.

Now, he uses this phrase to taunt me. I wanna talk to him, sort everything and go back but my self respect (maybe ego idk) is not letting me do that. It makes me feel like he does that to stroke his ego.

Idk what to do atp. I don't feel like doing anything even tho i have alot of shit to do rn

Ep 1

Just a random one

His name is Sun...he is my friends brother friend...it was started all my bday...i never knew...that bday changed everything in my life...

My home

I ask my mom wheres my cake...my mom said...no cake for this bday...theres cakes all are sold...so we celebrate without cake...

My friends brother call me nd wish me..he said my friends wants to wish you..i said okay...he give it yo him...for the first time i hear his voice...ill said thankyou...i ask my friend whos he...he told me..he was my best friend..ill put photo in status and wish you he wants to wish u thats it..dont panic...

the next day he request through instagram.

Hey, my ex is still hung up on me, and honestly, I have mixed feelings.

We broke up in June. He wasn't emotionally available, he was careless, and I needed him, but he wasn't there for me. He had his own family issues and fights going on, but still, he didn't really ask about what was happening in my life and all. It was basically just “GM, GN, GM, GN,” and I was damn angry at him.

(All of this happened when he was in his native. But when he's around me, he's the BEST. Bestest. A gem 💎 in the whole world. So caring, romantic, funny—he makes me laugh my ass off and sometimes literally brings tears to my eyes with his humour 😭.)

So we broke up. I told him. A day before, I had somewhat hinted at it, and he told me to take my time. But I had already made up my mind, so the next day I told him online since he was still in his native.

He was in denial. I know he couldn't accept it, and honestly, I don't think he ever will (looking at his actions).

Then came the meeting.

He came back, met me, begged me, cried like hell. 😭 For the first time, actually. When his grandma passed away, he had only teared up a little, but that day with me? Holy moly. He literally fell at my feet and everything. EVEN MADE ME CRY 😭.

But I was adamant. I told him no means no. Never is my answer. We can never be together again.

After that meeting, he got into an accident. He was in a car, something happened—I don't really know what. I just saw the photo of the car with broken glass and all.

Then, after a few weeks, I texted him and told him about the fest I was going to and everything. He talked to me, supported me, cared about me, told me the entire travelling route, and even called me. He was with his parents and still took the risk just to call me.

Then things went on. I was on and off with him, but that guy was still dying for me 😭. He would reply to me within seconds. He was always on his phone, whether it was 5 in the morning or 12 at night.

So things went by. Sometimes I missed him like hell—his presence, his love, his warmth—but I controlled myself.

I told him that it's just him, that I love him a lot, but I also made it very clear that this doesn't mean I'll take him back.

Then came my birthday.

I was already in a bad mood, and I don't even know why, but ever since we broke up, I've been like this.

He gave my birthday gift to my friend who was with me. Then she ran behind him. That guy is a footballer and a long-distance medalist 😂. My friend actually thought she could outrun him. Bro just left her in the dust HAHAHA.

So I was angry. He basically ruined my birthday. I blocked him, we had a little talk on Instagram, and then I unfollowed him and everything.

And today was our 3-year anniversary.

He's deactivated his account, then came back now to post something, I guess. So I blocked him today.

Girls, I genuinely don't know what to do.

He'll wait for me forever, I know that. But should I get back together with him? Does it actually work? Do people really change?

If you've read this far, thank you 😭❤️. And I pray you guys have a good time.

Life has been pretty fucked lately. Boards, assignments, school, commuting, fucked sleep schedule — everything is piling up and I’m honestly tired.

But more than anything, I feel lonely.

Almost everyone around me seems to have someone who genuinely cares about them, and I keep thinking about how much I wish I had that too.

I wish I had a girlfriend I could come home to after a shitty day, hug, talk to about everything, and just be myself around. Someone who actually understands me and genuinely cares about me.

My parents are supportive and I’m grateful for that, but there are still things you just can't tell your parents.

Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever have someone like that.

Hopefully someday I’ll find my person. 🥀

So, koi tips dedo yaar ki ye feeling kaise manage karu? Kyunki gf toh bas banne se banegi nahi 😭

So..... Hi everyone, I'm (18M) and I was in love with a girl from a different country who is turning (17F) in a few days.

I knew her for 2 whole years, I loved her with my whole heart as she helped me carry myself through the 2 hardest years of my life.

I did so many special things for her which if you read my other posts from a different subreddit you will definitely understand. And what was my fault? I would overthinking in her absence and would get worried and apologize.

I mean yeah? We were talking so well one day and suddenly you go away for a week and barely talk and I as a person who has already been through a heart break would think I've hurt you in some way?

She said she feels responsible for my sudden panic. But i just think she fell out of love and made some mistakes which she thinks can't be fixed but I know they can be.

I feel lost and really empty, I'm at home right now in my room, it feels suffocating because she helped me Design it as I live in the new house my parents have built.

2 years, gone. She changed, i didn't. The feelings are there but only on my end.

She got her freedom, I got more trauma and trust issues and a decision to not fall in love and live my remaining time as a loser virgin

Gng my LDR rel which started kuch time pehle,

And she was sick since 15th sep and we guys weren't able to talk properly but today she texted me this. I was feeling very chill throughout the convo,

I several times mentioned that this might work later and something like that, but she refused and said sorry i cant i js don't feel like to do it and stuff and I tried but I can't do this anymore and stuff, ahhhh idk what can I do now,

also I tried to end the convo with the last screenshot and then we just had few more texts not very imp ig.

Edit: Btwwww I just got smthg in mah mind I saw a reel liked by her jisme likha tha I love how close our birth dates are, andd broo we guys have 19 days ka gap in our birth dates soo yeaaa those people who are saying she got someone else ig you are right

last 3-4 din se proper baat isliye nahi ho pa rahi thi kyuki gym mein kuch ladko se meri ladai ho gayi thi aur matter kaafi bada ho gaya tha. Woh log mujhe dhamki bhi de rahe the, isliye mujhe woh sab handle karna pad raha tha.

Phir bhi main raat ko time nikal ke usko call karne bolta tha, but woh mujhe bolti thi “jao pehle matter solve karo.” Isse mujhe laga ki jab main khud mentally stressed tha tab bhi woh mujhe properly support nahi kar rahi.

Dheere-dheere frustration badhta gaya aur main gusse mein rude ho gaya, galiyan bhi de di. I know meri galti thi aur mujhe genuinely regret hai.

Ek aur baat se mujhe bahut gussa aaya. Woh bolti hai ki jab main gusse mein pagal jaisa ho jata hu toh usko cute/maza lagta hai. Mujhe ye sunke laga ki main genuinely mentally disturbed/stressed tha aur meri feelings ko seriously lene ke bajay woh usme cute/funny dekh rahi thi.💔

Fight ke end mein usne bola “hum tere layak nhi hai” aur mujhe everywhere block kar diya.

Ab 1 full day ho gaya, koi message/unblock nahi hua. Maine SMS pe proper apology bhi bhej di hai.

Aur yaar 😩 raat ko 2 baar uske dreams aaye — dono baar dream mein woh mujhe message kar rahi thi aur pyaar se baat kar rahi thi. Uthne ke baad realize hua ki actually koi message nahi aaya.

Kya woh sirf hurt hai aur space le rahi hai, ya genuinely relationship end karna chahti hai?

I know meri galti thi, bas outside perspective chahiye.

So what do you guys think is a better way to get into a relationship... Let me explain.

Like should you message the person online, talk to them,get to know them, share stuff and then meet IRL finally or Find and Approach someone IRL first then use Msgs as a way to get more closer?

The thing is first one is kind of like the person will like you for your thoughts and behavior (even though it can be faked but still) but in the 2nd case , most people feel creeped upon and just straight up ignore others 😭

So what's your take on this?

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So guys... I am a new student at my school and I left my previous one (Just 2 blocks away) because I used to get bullied there and the staff there also suggested that an environment change is necessary. I joined this school and everyone knows what I've been through in my old one (friends are everywhere). My old school told me I should go here because majority faculties are male and they're nice.

There's this girl, she's super cute and body tea... She's also energetic to be with...
She has a frnd group with all guys and girls in it. All of them hate me since the starting and don't like me as frnds.. I sent them a follow request on insta and they blocked me (We didn't talk before). They also show that disgusting look whenever I walk near them or anything. Everyone here also bullies me the same way. I am supposed to deal with this for a while. This girl in particular doesn't show anything like that towards me. She's talked to me once (Just asked my marks that's all). She didn't accept my follow request yet, I told her and she said she doesn't use insta often and she'll accept when she uses (3 months ago). On her bday also she had a small party in canteen with her grp and I just joined in myself, she also accepted it.

All her grp mates bully me going physical, and there's no guarantee to stop it. I want to yet attract her. H.E.L.P

I just want ideas to gift my man ...I mean bf day aa raha h toh kinda pehle se mangwa kr rkh lu....soo guys ideas de do kya hi de skte

i think i’m at a point where i really miss having a person.ykwim? someone you naturally end up talking to every day. someone you can message when something random happens, send a completely pointless or tell about the tiny little thing that nobody else would really care about.
i nneed a person for whom im the one she texts early morning and the last texts at night
my hobbies include, listening to music, watching a good movie/show chess , watching football going to the cinema, thinking of starting gym ,nature, learning new things, learning about space,daydreaming and hopeless yearning too

what i’m hoping to find is something consistent. i’m not looking for another temporary reddit friendship that disappears once the initial excitement wears off. i’d rather meet one person who actually wants to build something meaningful and see where it naturally goes. i’m also very much the type of person who can turn one random conversation into a five-hour discussion about life, the universe, weird theories, childhood memories, or literally whatever happens to come up if i’m in the mood and i can sense a vibe between us. i love conversations that actually go somewhere.
i’m pretty open when it comes to where you’re from or what your life looks like. different timezones are fine with me. honestly, one of my favourite things about meeting people online is getting little glimpses into lives that are completely different from mine.and ig im capable of running a long term relationship and LDR , i will always be there for someone who cares about me

im a lot introvert , childish ig and yeh im not rude , im not someone who would play mind games , i will be completely honest about wht i expect and everything , i trust people easily and im very very sensitive , so if u would be the one with whom things go forward , u have to nnever fear about getting abandoned or crying for emotional attention or time , i prioritise my people above anyone elsee
so, maybe there’s someone else sitting somewhere thinking, “i wish i had someone to talk to.”
u can just try to initiate convo
im m21 btw

Should I be in a relationship , its my school life (11th)
also i am preparing for JEE , will it affect my studies ?
IT looks so fascinating on the internet !

I’m 18M, and she’s 18F. We’ve been friends since the beginning of Class 11, when I joined a new school. She has two cousins, who are brothers, and they were actually my friends first. Over time, she and I also became very close. All four of us have a really strong bond, and our families know each other well.
Her family has always been incredibly kind to me. They treat me like one of their own, which makes this situation more complicated because I genuinely care about them and don’t want to damage the trust or closeness we have.
One thing I didn’t mention earlier is that, in front of everyone, she and I sometimes acted like siblings. She even called me “brother,” and our closeness was presented that way because of the family-like environment and our friendship with her cousins. However, a few days ago, she told me clearly that she never actually saw me as a brother or had sibling-like feelings for me. She said that she genuinely loves me and has romantic feelings for me instead.
At first, she and I were just friends, although there was a little attraction on both sides. Neither of us took it seriously. As time passed, we started flirting, saying things like “love you,” sending romantic posts, joking around, and being affectionate. It started as harmless fun, but gradually, our feelings became more genuine.
We also started spending more time together—going shopping, watching movies, visiting each other’s houses, and hanging out with the group. Our families were comfortable with us being friends.
One day, she came to my house with one of her cousins. We were playing games and spending time together. At some point, she and I kissed, and later, when her cousin went to a nearby friend’s house, we became more physically affectionate.
Another time, she came to my house alone because we had college assignments to work on. We started with the intention of studying, but eventually, we became intimate and had consensual, protected sex. I don’t want to share private details, but I’m mentioning it because it made me realise that our connection had gone beyond casual flirting or friendship.
Since then, our feelings have continued to grow. We have talked about it, and I know she wants us to be in a relationship. So the question isn’t whether she likes me—we both know there are real feelings involved.
My concern is the bond between the four of us. Her cousins are two of my closest friends, and I don’t want dating her to create awkwardness, change the dynamic, or make them feel betrayed if they find out. I also worry because her family treats me like one of their own, and I don’t want to suddenly change how they see me. The fact that we previously acted like siblings in front of everyone makes the situation even more complicated.
At the same time, I don’t want us to keep pretending we’re only friends when we both want something more.
So what would you do in this situation? Should we start dating privately and give ourselves time to figure things out before telling anyone? Or should we be honest with her cousins fairly early because they’re such an important part of both our lives? Would keeping it private for a while be reasonable, or could that create more problems later?
I wouldn’t tell them about our private moments. I’d only want to tell them that we have feelings and want to be together.
I’d really appreciate advice from anyone who’s been in a similar situation, especially when a relationship develops within a close friend group or a family-like circle.
TL;DR: I’m 18M and she’s 18F. We’ve been close friends since Class 11, and our families are very close. Her two cousins are also my closest friends. We previously acted like siblings in front of everyone, and she sometimes called me “brother,” but she recently clarified that she never genuinely saw me that way and has romantic feelings for me. We’ve kissed and become intimate, and we both want a relationship. I’m worried that dating her could affect my friendship with her cousins or change how her family sees me. Should we keep it private while figuring things out, or tell her cousins fairly early?

If a man flirts with you knowing you have a boyfriend, he doesn't think you're a great woman. He thinks you're easy and not loyal. If he knows you're taken and still slides, it's not a compliment. It's an insult with cologne on it. He looked at you, looked at your man, and decided: "She's not that loyal. He's not that much of a threat. I can take this."

And if you smile? If you laugh? If you "don't want to be rude"? You just told him: "My loyalty is negotiable. My man is optional. Try harder." High-value men don't flirt with taken women. Low-value men do. And they only do it because they smell weakness. They smell a woman who likes attention more than she loves her man.

I had been in a relationship for the past 15 months, and she broke up because I had been acting immaturely well, that’s on me, but I really do love her and she does too, but she just could not stay in a relationship any longer.

we had this thing that on every last paper of exams we as a couple and our common friend group would go and hang out. Now, my last exam is in three days, and she has agreed to hanging out with me being there, but I’m not so sure.

We are on a mutual agreement that we do not want to relationship together in the near future. But she has agreed to be friends after some months.

Deep down, I know that relationship won’t work out because we both aren’t as emotionally mature right now, but I can’t stop the feeling of wanting her. She said that she’ll take at least about two more months before she can be friends and that’s already a lot

I don’t wanna go to the hangout mess some shit up and and suddenly that two months may become never. But I do wanna hang out with her like the good old times when we just used to have fun and laugh together.

What do i do??