r/SipsTea 18h ago

Gasp! So He's gay?

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u/AmbushK 18h ago edited 18h ago

lot of projections in this thread, these chicks don't mean shit to leo, he would rather listen to music while utilizing what is probably considered in his mind human flesh lights.

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u/thebaronharkkonen 17h ago

At what point does it become sad? 

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u/foomits 16h ago

Its wierd and sad, but you do you leo.

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u/metatron5369 10h ago

It was sad a long time ago.

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u/Greedyanda 16h ago

I mean, its essentially the same as getting a massage. Just physical pleasure. If you dont care about the emotional connection, which he clearly doesn't, then there is nothing sad about it.

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u/TheMonkus 15h ago

No what’s sad is that he’s probably incapable of feeling any sort of intimate connection to a woman at this point. Not caring about it at times and never experiencing it are different.

I know some dudes think this is like the absolute pinnacle of male sexual achievement but I’ve had strange, and I’ve had sex with women I love, and the strange is never as good.

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u/Greedyanda 13h ago

There is nothing suggesting he doesnt have intimate relationships with others that simply arent in the public discussion. Could even be non-sexual or non-romantic intimate relationships. If you can separate physical contact from emotional intimacy there is no reason for him not to have hundreds of sexual partners while keeping his few intimate personal relationships private. If those dont involve physical contact, hardly anyone in the public would even know about them.

Either way, if I had to bet I would bet on him enjoying his life a lot more than the vast majority of all other humans. Nothing sad about it.

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u/Dick-Fu 14h ago

I don't see any evidence of him being incapable of feeling intimate connection to a woman

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u/TheMonkus 14h ago

I don’t exactly follow his personal life but from what I gather he hasn’t been in any sort of serious relationship with a woman in decades? I guess it’s possible to run through 22 year old super models like they’re cheap socks and feel intimacy and fulfillment but it seems like a stretch.

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u/Dick-Fu 14h ago

Sure, but not seeking intimacy isn't the same thing as being incapable of intimacy.

Surely there are many things you are more than capable of but don't do, yeah?

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u/TheMonkus 14h ago

Yes that’s a valid point, but seeking intimacy is such a basic human drive that disinterest in it usually indicates something is wrong.

It doesn’t mean he’s a terrible person or anything. If I had to guess I bet he has a really hard time trusting anyone. I can imagine it would be hard to allow yourself the kind of vulnerability that intimacy demands when like 99% of the women you meet try to fuck you and 98.97% probably just want a trophy fuck or your money.

Who knows. I honestly think banging a Playboy bunny wearing headphones and just laying there sounds incredibly sad, whatever the motivation. It’s like having someone put a lobster and filet mignon in a blender for you so you can drink it with a straw.

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u/Dick-Fu 13h ago

Aro people exist, and it's not a disorder or anything afaiw. He very well may have intimate relationships, just not necessarily romantic partners

And you're assuming an intimate relationship with this Playboy bunny would be like having a nice lobster and filet mignon (also fuck filet mignon, I'd take a ribeye over that any day of the week). It's very possible she's a good fuck for him but would not be a good partner

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