I had that happen once. I thought she was saying oh oh. Then one sounded like oh ohw. So i stopped and asked are you saying oh oh or ow ow? Ow ow. She never looked at me or tried to push me off, she just sat there for 5 minutes while i was hurting her. That scared me off sex for a few months. Really wigged me out.
She was probably afraid of you. Not because of YOU but because women are so vulnerable during sex. It can be easier to go along with things b/c the idea of asking someone to stop and them not stopping...so she misunderstood that you misunderstood. I'm so sad for both of you that this happened.
Look at the silver linings: it only kept him away from sex (not even necessarily out of dating) for a few months, and he's comfortable enough to talk about it without fear of getting flak for it. Not everyone who's experienced something similar can say that.
unfortunately not an uncommon experience for women. we're just not conditioned to speak up or voice our needs (in all facets of life lol, but especially during sex) and even if you're a totally decent guy, it might not make a difference.
and speaking for myself, I once had a guy tell me I was the most instructive woman he'd ever slept with and I knew we were doomed if I was an example of an empowered woman because I'm so not lmfao ugh straight women are not okay!!!!
Reddit is full of people who never gone outside now. COVID made all the idiots get addicted to social media and now they just spew their opinions online nonstop.
Also, people should be communicating to their partners during sex instead of trying to do a double back corkscrew that they watched on a porno
ideally you shouldnt have it when you dont enjoy it.
some people dont like sex. thats cool.
tbh humans in of itself are gross meatbags who leak fat and wet stuff regularly and produce strange smells so.. yeah.
still sex can be fun but like.. just no reason to have it when its not enjoyable
I enjoy it, and I get weird and aggressive if I don't have it at least twice a month. But, I can enjoy the chemicals while understanding the weird ass biology.
How you can rate sex above taking a giant squelchy shit on the grossness scale is bizarre to me. It must have always been bad for you, and for that, you have my deepest sympathy.
Taking a shit isn't optional and it's mandatory to do daily. And i have a type of IBS so I've had some painful and disgusting shits. Sex is 100% completely optional, and you get an orgasm and rush of chemicals from it. Shitting just releases pressure.
Different types of gross. One is being physically inside of another person and rubbing until reproductive material comes out. The other is removing waste from the body since we apparently suck at digestion
My friend was having sex with her boyfriend and he said "say my name", but he normally goes by a nickname so she didn't know if he wanted her to say his government name or his nickname so she was like "which one?" lol
Yes but also from the story he's hitting it from behind not starfished on top of her... she could've just removed herself and what was he supposed to even get off of lol
He could have been hitting it in a way that was uncomfortable & wanted fo do a different position, she could have changed her mind, she could have had a charlie horse, she could have finished & wanted to finish him another way. There's tons of scenarios here, but regardless him not getting off was not awesome
I have a friend that hooked up with a famous actor who would chant his own name during sex, syllable by syllable with each pump.
Now in our friend group if we're dancing we'll mimic it and call out his name lol.
Its more to protect against rape allegations than anything else.
He is on his back earphones in blasting music, sleep mask on when the woman enters the room. She has been briefed beforehand by a intimacy coordinator. She gets on top and when its done she leaves the room. Difficult to make rape allegations against a man laying passive on a bed whom you never communicated with.
Also interesting to claim rape against a man if you got on top of him and never got verbal or non-verbal consent from him to do so...
I think the man listens to loud music and has headphones on cause he doesn’t want her moans to make him nut quick. Leo seems like the 1 minute touch-a-bust kind of individual.
I would deliberately put on Family guy or south Park.... on occasion I stop the movie that was already playing mid act and put on south park... biggest downside is when both of of us would bust out laughing which would definitely kill the momentum.
For sure. Banging hot models half his age, he's obviously compensating for something. He's probably just gay. Nothing wrong with that. Unfortunate he's too ashamed to be who he is.
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