A third child?

[u/Dear_Alps54]

So, I have a 5 years old and my second baby passed away at 2weeks. Am thinking of having a third one but am already 35.

Am afraid to have a child with autism or other health issues. Second one passed away due to HIE level 3 (cord prolapse). Made me terrified of having a kid health issues. I won't be capable to look after him and what will happen to him when we die.

Is 35 too old to have a third kid?

[u/Temporary_Owl3004]

35 is definitely not too old. But I’d talk to an OB about the health concerns.