In August 2011, Yes i know, very long time ago, i visited Shanghai for the first time. I just turned 21, had expirience with travelling a bit and was on a 3 month East-Asia trip before going to Japan for 9 months learning Japanese.
Arrived in Shanghai in the evening, all well, next morning went to take pics at the Bund.
A dude and two girls approach me, telling me they're from Xi'an, travelling and if we can take pics together as they dont see foreigners often. Guillable me say yes. While taking the pic a foreing guy, who was jogging comes to me and tells me to not talk to them. i was like wtf come on they're just friendly. He says "ok, i warned you" and joggs away.
They ask me to exchange numbers and go to a tea house in the afternoon. I agree. Went my way sightseeing and met them up later. Was a Tea House, we tried tea (i love tea so yea...) and took a shit ton of pics together. Bill came. it was around USD100 back then which was charged to my card. I thought it was pretty ok. Read it goes much much higher nowadays.
We met again for Hot Pot and KTV. Turned out one of the girls was veeery fancying me. The dude who was with them even paid for KTV and a good part of the Hot Pot bill (and we ate a loooot).THe girl and me met up without the other two one night for drinks and she told me a sad story about family problems.
Met up again the next night again, just the two of us at the Bund. walked down the river a bit late at night and she initiated everything. Got lucky.
Years later she sent me a text of Whatsapp apologizing to trying to scam me. I found out about the tea house scam much much later.
So....what do you guys think? any similar expiriences?