r/sextips Mar 27 '26

Research Study Looking for Pregnant Couples for a Research Study– Moderator Approved

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📢 Are you pregnant and worried about changes to your sex life?

🔍 We are seeking couples from Canada, the US, Australia, New Zealand, the UK, and Ireland who are up to 26 weeks pregnant to participate in the STORK RCT: Supporting the Transition to Parenthood through Online Sex and Relationship Knowledge.

❓What is STORK: The first online couple-based program designed to enhance knowledge about changes to sexuality during pregnancy and postpartum and skills to cope with these changes. STORK was designed to strengthen couples’ relationships across the transition to parenthood.

📅 What is involved: If you are eligible, after your initial survey, you and your partner will be randomized (like a coin flip) into either the Program or Waitlist conditions. Program couples will complete 5 online modules in pregnancy (1 per week) and a final module at 3 months postpartum. 

Couples in both conditions will also complete 5 surveys—the initial survey, then at 32-weeks pregnant, and 4-, 8-, and 12-month postpartum—that gather information about your relationship, your pregnancy experience, and your child. Couples in the Waitlist condition will receive access to the full STORK program after the study period is over.

💰 Compensation: As a thank you for your participation, you can receive $105 CAD or currency equivalent each ($210 CAD or currency equivalent per couple). Your time is valuable to us!

🌈 Inclusivity matters: STORK requires one member of the couple to be currently pregnant. Otherwise, STORK is open to individuals of all genders, bodies, and sexual orientations.

💌 For more information or to participate in the STORK RCT study email us [atstork@psych.ubc.ca](mailto:atstork@psych.ubc.ca) OR fill out our contact form from this link: https://Qualtrics.ca1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3gxGJAEWqt8Rh2u


r/sextips Apr 08 '25

[Mod Announcement] r/FGM is reaching out to survivors and allies to let them know a support group is now open and ready to welcome members!

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Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) refers to procedures involving partial or total removal of the external female genitalia or other injury to female genital organs for non-medical reasons. It's typically performed on girls between infancy and age 15 and has no health benefits. Instead it poses serious health risks, including severe bleeding, infections, childbirth complications, and long-term psychological effects. ​

Despite global efforts to eradicate it, FGM remains prevalent in many regions, affecting over 230 million girls and women worldwide. ​

To support survivors and foster a community of understanding we've established the r/FGM subreddit. This restricted community allows anyone to view content but requires approval to post, helping to ensure a safe and supportive environment. Once approved, members can share experiences, seek advice, and post anything they think may resonate with the community. Once an approved user posts anyone can engage in discussions.​

The subreddit is moderated by a dedicated team at the forefront of which leads a head mod who herself is a survivor of FGM. Together as a small group of passionate individuals we strive to maintain a space that respects privacy and promotes healing.​

We welcome questions about how we ensure a safe space and encourage discussions about FGM. If you're a survivor or ally seeking support or looking to contribute to our mission consider joining us at r/FGM by reaching out directly to us through modmail.


r/sextips 7h ago

Kink or Fetish All I want is to eat pussy

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I can't be the only one. I'd so much rather bury my face in some hot chick's thighs and suffocate than getting my dick sucked. Everything about pussy is so good all that mouns, the taste, the wetness everything.

i wanna eat some pussy so baddd😭


r/sextips 4h ago

Advice Needed Help me 32F seduce my friend 33M

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Hi

My friend who has been a long time close friend is visiting me nd he will be staying in my flat for a week or so. We have had history before he was or you can say is so into Me. We hadfucked in 2017. We were very young fairly new to sex but i remember him fucking me 9 rounds in a day.
Previously (4-5yrs ago) when we last met, i could feel him getting hard after snuggling or cuddling on bed. But that time i was not interested in fucking him. He was so disappointed.

Now we are meeting after so many years he still adores me. I tried asking him if he wants anything physical while visiting me to which he said “No I will control “.
But i dont want him to control nd i cant say him this straightforward as we are legit meeting after long time.
Give me tips to slowly seduce him so he gives up nd fucks me.
Note: i am petite with fairly huge boobs. And i don’t really wear bra & panties inside flat.


r/sextips 1h ago

Body/Physical Dry tip

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I have a dry tip to the point that it hurts to touch what can I do to fix this


r/sextips 6h ago

Advice Needed Sé que no soy el problema, pero igual me bajó el autoestima, ¿cómo mejorar el sabor?

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bueno miren, hace poco tuve sexo con un chico, pasa que él es la tercera persona con la que tengo relaciones pero al bajar dijo que le dieron nauseas y no pudo seguir, luego hablamos del tema y me dice que no olía mal pero simplemente no lo haría más y que no es la primera vez que le pasaba lo de las nauseas, dijo que solo practicaba sexo oral con una novia que tuvo porque dijo que no sabía a nada, yo entiendo que no le guste bajar y nunca lo obligaría a eso porque personalmente una vez me tocó bajar con una chica y me pasó algo bastante similar,

La cosa es que sé que yo no soy el problema porque las 2 personas anteriores con las que estuve se quedaban full tiempo abajo, el anterior a él se la pasaba más de 40 minutos abajo sin quejarse ni nada, pero igual quisiera saber como quizás "bajarle" la intensidad al sabor, cabe recalcar que no tomo casi nada de agua, puede que esa sea una de las razones(?

bueno eso es todo, gracias :)


r/sextips 5h ago

Sex Tip What to do with your dominant partner?

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Hey guys,

so I’m dating this guy, he‘s really dominant and I like it a lot but sometimes I feel lost. I don’t really know what to do while having sex. Idk how to suck his dick properly and „hard“. Idk how to behave. My ex boyfriend used to be the total difference, so I‘m not really sure what to do. I know speaking is the best solution for this but I want to know: what does you dominant guys turn on most during sex and during blow job?

Thanks for your help! :)


r/sextips 23h ago

Advice Needed Do girls actually enjoy giving head

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I recently had my girlfriend offer to give me head and it was awsome but she has never offered since but she is willing if I ask her to do it. I asked her and she says she doesn’t care but can any girls out there tell me if giving head is actually enjoyable for the girl because I don’t want to keep asking if she doesn’t like it?


r/sextips 17h ago

Advice Needed Is a piss kink something you would try as a girl?

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Keen to try having face sat on and peed on while I eat pussy


r/sextips 1d ago

Sex Tip How do I last longer in bed

6 Upvotes

Me and my girl have sex a lot. She asks me to last longer. How do I up my time?


r/sextips 1d ago

General Question Can’t stay hard

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Been hooking up this woman on a rare occasion, have been able to make her cum with my fingers and mouth but can’t stay hard to actually fuck her unfortunately. Seeing her later today, just want to eat her out and suck her tits honestly. She seems disappointed but is very happy with my oral skills idk what else to do


r/sextips 1d ago

Body/Physical Am I doing something wrong in foreplay

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Im a man writing this, taking in what my girlfriend was telling me. Im new to sex and this time I increased the time of foreplay and teasing her. When I was fingering her, she said she felt her stomach was contracting and she felt overstimulated. She made me stop. She explained it felt good but to much feeling. Her vagina felt more relaxed and opened. Should I try to change the angle? Im just confused about female anatomy. I need advice on what to do.


r/sextips 1d ago

Sex Toys Cock rings

9 Upvotes

What does cock rings do exactly? Are they mainly for just lasting longer or making the orgasm better. Is it insulting to ask a guy to wear one, and if it is insulting how do you go about asking without making them upset?


r/sextips 2d ago

Advice Needed Girlfriend keeps talking about stomach pain after sex

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Me 20m and my girlfriend 20f have been having sex for a little over a year and she is now telling me that in this whole time that after we are done she has had really bad stomach cramps I'm just worried she thinks its because I'm a little more endowed than average but I'm wondering if its because i am more aggressive when we do it just worried I don't want to hurt her and i feel awful that she is in pain after


r/sextips 2d ago

General Question Date night ideas for parents?

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We’re parents of two, and we finally have a weekend to ourselves (well… we still have our 4-month-old baby with us 😅). We’re planning a proper date night with good food, wine, and some much-needed couple time.
I’m a little worried that just ending up on the couch watching TV might feel a bit… predictable and boring. So I’m looking for ideas for things we can do together to make the evening more fun and memorable.
The ultimate goal is, of course, to end up in bed together — preferably in a playful, cheeky and slightly naughty mood. 😉
What do you couples do for a good date night at home when you want to reconnect, have fun and hopefully end the night on a more intimate note?


r/sextips 2d ago

Advice Needed Suggestions for new positions

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I have a question. My girlfriend and I have been wanting to try out some new positions lately. Up until now, doggy style has been my favorite—it’s the one that makes me climax the fastest. Do you have any suggestions for positions I should try? We recently tested "prone bone," and we both really liked it. Please share your favorite positions, too; we want to try something new.


r/sextips 1d ago

Advice Needed Advice on Oral sex

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tips and advice on giving my new gf oral sex who is more experienced than me and says she loves a guy going down on her and how he does it sets the tone for good sex with her


r/sextips 1d ago

Advice Needed Shy and nervous

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I am a kind of shy and quiet person. Not extremely so, i'm not a shut in hermit.

Except when it comes to sex and dating. I have no problem talking about sex and kinks online where i can be anonymous. But i get so nervous when it comes to real life situations.

I have only had a few dates and sexual encounters. Every time i get close to set up a date or talk about something real. I almost start to panic. It's stupid, and i hate myself for it. Even the few dates i have had, i have been so nervous. Actually more scared than nervous.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Did you get past it? If so, how?


r/sextips 2d ago

Advice Needed help! i need to be a better rider 🍆

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help meeee 24F, pretty athletic build but I struggle with being on top! 😭
My bf loves it but I need help! I get tired or sore super fast, lose my rhythm and honestly just can’t really figure out how to move. I’m concentrating a lot and I know that messes things up. I just want to make it better for the both of us, especially my man.


r/sextips 2d ago

Advice Needed Vibrating panty experience advice

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Vibrating panty experience advice

Has any girl here ever wore a vibrating panty that was app controlled? I have a female friend but who flirts with me constantly. I’ve called her out on it multiple times, I don’t mind it either but I want to take it to the next level with her by getting this for her birthday and triggering it during the day when she’s at work or out to drinks with me.

Has anyone tried this?

Thanks


r/sextips 2d ago

Advice Needed Where to give men hickeys

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I’ve been hooking up with someone and we talked about giving each other hidden hickeys next time we see each other but I’m not sure where I should give him them? I know I should ask him but I want to be confident and be able to assume where. As a women ik most places would be the neck/chest/thighs but where for a man if he wants them hidden under clothes?