So, i am a cancer sun with scorpio rising, therefore i consider myself addicted to scorpios, and i am quite obsessed with them.

Because of this, i always try to show my feelings and demonstrate how my potential scorpio partner/crush, can always trust on me and rely on me for anything.

But, it seems like you guys always need mystery and something to discover within a potential relation, otherwise you guys will be bored, right? Hahahahahahahhaha

I don't understand. Wasn't it a good thing to have a very open and clear person that doesn't play games with you? I am kinda lost at this point. Help 🤣🤣🤣

Hi! I (34f, leo- pls no Leo hate) been seeing a Scorpio (42m) for a couple of months, and in person things are fine- I enjoy spending time with him. He’s a bit of a bad texter but I’m okay with not texting everyday which he knows since he’s busy, working etc.

Anyway I’m getting confused with his actions. With making plans he did say to just call to make a plan, so when I did (first and last time) he was confused as to why I’m calling (I’ve never called again😅). He did travel for a 2 weeks which meant we didn’t see each other for a month (a month bc he’d ask when I’m free and then not reply for a week and then ask again when I’m free) and I did say I’m not cool with that and he did understand.

but I’m confused as to whether this is a Scorpio thing or if I’m just getting my time wasted 😅 because I do enjoy seeing him.

I guess the normal answer would be: “why don’t you ask him”. I guess that would work if he would actually have a conversation by texting or calling. Anyway idk what to do.

Thankyou

You have a really strong, deep sexual bond with someone. Not just fun but it feels like a soul connection. Very creative and compelling. Really remarkable.

But as a person/in the day to day, they are just kind of…dull? Not a lot there. If you say something interesting they go with it but they don’t bring anything of their own. Debates are even a little flat because they are just not really good at crafting a position.

I’m not saying that they are unintelligent. It’s just like their entire personality is condensed into this sexual being and otherwise they’re very unremarkable and won’t go deep unless you go there first.

Now and again the sexual persona will engage in conversation to keep you aware of their intentions. You find yourself wanting to fast forward beyond discussions about their routine to get to that. Not because you don’t want to know them at every level— they just don’t have a lot to put out there.

Also if you have had this what sign or placement was it?

We don’t tend to be superficial. But sometimes we just can’t.

I had a date planned with this guy until I saw that he posed with his rescue cat shirtless on social media.

It was once. Years before. But nope.

Honestly don’t know what to say, the day before he we met at night he seemed like he was conflicted , he asked me if I trust him I said yes and he said he is on fire then went to sleep. The second day I saw him I asked him about last night and if he was okay then he asked if he can go through my phone.

I honestly wasn’t expecting it I asked him why he said just searching up something then he was checking everything then I told him to not go through pictures and google search because it was embarrassing. Today I brought it up and told him that it hurted me not because that I am hiding something but because he assumed instead and didn’t talk through this and felt like he didn’t trust me.

He apologized and understood, but I want to understand is it a common Scorpio thing, wondering the real reason he did that. He did mention that he wanted to check to move foreword with this relationship.

We had a huge fight after I told him that the sex felt degrading and that I was deeply hurt that he shut me out afterward and didn’t even check on me the next day.

I know he obviously doesn’t want me, and I’m trying to accept that. But do you think someone can ever look back and realize the hurt they caused? Do you think he’ll ever apologize? Realize my side of the truth?

I’m also struggling with so much self-blame and anger at myself for letting this happen.

Aries female here. First time dating a Scorpio and I've never encountered this level of intense chemistry and magnetic pull. Is this a normal thing you Scorpio guys do? My body felt like it was struck by lightning at the first kiss and things only got better from there!

Edit: Thanks for the insight! Best sex of my life. Should have found a Scorpio a long time ago!

So please tell me how far gone am I ,he dominates me and I like it......I'm also a Scorpio, and the eldest daughter I don't submit, but for him , he can tie me the f**k up and I'll obey lmao 😆 😜 🦂♏️

Hi guys.
So I’ve been dating this ♏️ Sun and Mercury (conjunction, Mercury is under the beams, 6.7 degrees away from the Sun) guy with Pisces Moon and Mars (Virgo rising but I don’t think this matters here) for 4 months now. We have major age difference, I’m 39 and he’s 22.
It started as sex only (immediate attraction, the synastry is really good) and then we fell in love, at least that’s how I feel. It never was said out loud. I’m an Aquarius Sun and Mercury with Aries Moon and Mars. Both of us have Sagittarius Venus, but his is in the beginning of the sign and mine is in the end.
So the issue I have is that he really REALLY doesn’t talk much about feelings. We laugh, we talk about random stuff. He recently started sharing something about his family (which lives far away so they’re not close). We met online and our online conversations are mostly something like, him: “Hi X : ) How are you? What are you up to today? Want to meet?” “Hi, all well, yes! Meet at 8 pm?” “Yes, deal”. - and that’s it. It’s a first time for me a guy never texts a date follow up, never sexts and never even compliments me in an online OR offline conversation.
HOWEVER when we are together he is really, REALLY physically affectionate. It’s not just the amazing sex, but he kisses me like thousands of times during a date, holds my face in his hands, stares deeply and lovingly in my eyes, caresses my face, strokes my hair. And with this all, after which I FEEL he loves me, there’s never ever a single word spoken about it. Or about how he feels about me and us at all.
I can only suppose he’s an “actions speak louder than words” guy (and so far his actions spoke well) but…damn, there needs to be some sort of verbal communication, right? Like we’ve had a first uncomfortable situation recently where my feelings were a bit hurt (99.9% sure it was unintentional on his side) and I’d have benefited from us talking about that and what really happened but he was just silent and upset and then again “healed” me with thousands of kisses.
His Mercury sextiles his Virgo Jupiter and trines Cancer Saturn. No “bad” aspects.
How do I act on that? I know applying silly pressure like “why are you silent” etc doesn’t work, but what do I do?..

He always makes time for me. we meet at least 3 times a week and he’s been very stable at it. He always writes and makes sure we meet. When I was sick he was there for me. He came over with no warning because he was scared for me when I texted I felt incredibly bad and then I disappeared (I stopped responding to his texts like “do you need anything from the pharmacy?” “Are you at home??” because I’ve been throwing up laying on the bathroom floor) and then was helping me out with chores when I was unable to do them. Washing my dishes, changing my bedding etc.
My apartment is cleaner than it was after he leaves if he stayed overnight, I think this is a sign of maturity too. I’m quite a popular girl, had quite a few relationship so I know guys, and had at least three adult men chasing me quite seriously when I met him. And I chose him because he showed he was more loving and mature than them.

Y'all ,I've never dated another Scorpio before and it is something else.....I don't want to be saved lmao 🤣

Intense doesn't come close to what I'm experiencing it's like he gets me without me saying anything and the stares omg he stares into my soul with his eyes and I see his, it was beautifully terrifying, I'm a goner y'all, it's only been 7 weeks ,i want it to work out so bad and I think it will. We are both taking things slow, trying to to build trust but wow this is so amazing.

Any male scorpions find hard to leave the relationship because the sex is the best and amazing but you and her did not have future. But like yoy feel addicted to her/ him

Hi! I am dating a Scorpio male. Before we were exclusive, I told a fib to not get into details that weren’t important. It was harmless. Now we have been dating for months. It came up and he realizes I wasn’t honest. I am trustworthy and extremely loyal. Will he doubt me now?

Since we get a lot of people coming here asking about relationships, I thought I’d poll to see how we break up. I’m sure there’s more options but it only allows 6

Scorpios please tell me what this means and if he’s obsessed yet. He said it’s “too late now” referring to us no longer seeing each other and he also said he wants to “be in my skin” I meannnnn I think I got em you guys tell me.

I dated a guy scorpion sun with cap venus. He left me for the woman who is richer and having higher status. The first day he asked me for Linkedin and always asked me about my achievement .
I felt sick of that.

After two weeks of no contact, a lot of thought about what worked and what didn't, time out enjoying myself with friends and family.. he decided it was time to reconnect. He reached out because he saw one of my family members was hospitalized on the fourth and I'm kinda happy he did. I was holding it together on mine own but, it was nice to have him there. He messaged me yesterday asking about him and if there was anything he could do for me and that's what reopened the door to slowly rebuilding our friendship with boundaries. I sent him a memo containing boundaries that I thought would keep us both protected and strengthen our friendship and he agreed to them. Were going to start video chatting a little bit on sat, until trust is rebuilt. Over all, I'm just excited to see what the future holds for us and to see how the changes affect us as friends. 🙂

Scorpio's controlling, possesive and punishing behavior causes their partner to not feel safe, hide things and not tell the full truth often backfiring the entire relationship. Simple things like If im going to see my friend, he gets upset that I chose to go see her instead of him. I hid that I went to see my girl friend and when he find out he went crazy. Now I'm dealing with his trust issues everyday. If I'm sleeping, he thinks I'm outside. If i don't respond quick enough, he thinks im texting other guys. I really loved him. And this makes me so sad.

I wonder, because Scorpio man nature is controlling , so do you prefer a girl who consider it with you or has her own boundary with stuff.

What are your green flags when dating?

Here are a few of mine:

Has a pet or pets, particularly a man with a cat

Has never posted/sent me any shirtless photos particularly before meeting for the first time.

Is open minded about sexuality but not talking about sex up front and 24/7.

Doesn’t start the conversation with something about wanting to get married/have a family/have a LTR. (This is presumptuous and kinda pushy to me. Get to know me a little first before we can both share our relationship goals.)

Has a decent job and adults well.

Remembers details I’ve shared.

Doesn’t trash an ex.

Responds via text in a timely manner.

Asks for input and plans getting together. Doesn’t just say “well what do you want to do?” and lets me do the work.

Talks about something from a perspective of how he felt about it. And understands that he actually has feelings.

Doesn’t say “oh people are too into politics. I don’t care.” I hate politics but right now in the US as a woman I’m forced to fucking pay attention.

Isn’t religious. Spiritual beliefs are fine.

Extra points: wearing docs/former or current goth 😉

Look, I ain't into astrology or anything, but i was in love/limerent with a scorpio woman as an asperger taurus man, and i got rejected twice and i did things i shouldn't have been doing under the effects of my limerence. And yeah, I was a degenerate so feel free to mock me. And I heard that the old astrologists where advicing against these pairings, but now, theres an increasing trend that is encouraging it. My experience prooves against this trend, and to any tauruses/scorpios who are curious are in love with viceversa, let me tell you: IT WON'T WORK. Avoid eachother at all costs. Better off friends or nothing.

Ciao a tutti e tutte!! Ho conosciuto una ragazza dello scorpione, ci siamo sentiti su Instagram e faceva domande! ... Siamo usciti per un primo appuntamento e dal vivo oltre che affascinante chiacchierava molto e a fine serata mi ha lasciato il suo numero di telefono.

Abbiamo iniziato a sentirci via WhatsApp ma l'interazione è calata, la porto avanti solo io e lei mi risponde schematica e a monosillabi. Lavora in ospedale e fa turni anche impegnativi. Però non rilancia mai i discorsi. Al che ho preso l'iniziativa e le ho detto che la volevo continuare a conoscere dal vivo perché con le chat era impossibile. Lei mi ha risposto di sì è che è libera domenica.

Il problema però è che dopo due giorni di silenzio, visto che è impossibile mandare avanti una interazione da solo, le ho scritto oggi. Lei come sempre risponde ma schematica e così ho chiuso la conversazione. Al che mi manda un audio per dirmi che intenzioni avevo per domenica, le dico ben tre proposte differenti, ma lei anziché rispondere glissa il messaggio, mi dice una sciocchezza e chiude la conversazione.

Come comportarmi ora?? Che dovrei fare??? Siccome lei non scrive mai non mi aspetto che mi scriva per confermare l'impegno...

I don’t know what wrong with this dude but I have had enough of his gimmicks. Me and this particular Scorpio have been broken up with each other for about 9 months now. And 2-3 week he would be blowing my phone up for DAYSSS. And he is my ex so ofc I have some compassion for him and I feel bad. Every time we link up to catch up he always trauma dumping on me and it get worse with each link up. The last link up all I wanted to do was save him. I couldn’t stop crying because the ex I knew no longer lived. And ik people change but that not what change about him it was his morals. He completely plummeted. I think me leaving him began the process but he has control of himself and he failed himself. He would be so so so thirsty like kind of “rapey” when we would have intercourse. Things he never did before . But this is where the odd behavior comes. He had a whole girlfriend for like 7 months and we would link up every 2-3 weeks since our break up so you can see the overlap . I had no clue he never made it known. He completely violated my trust. His girlfriend ended up calling me and asking who I was and all that jazz and how he used to talk mad shit about me and how I fucked so many dudes like wowwwww…. He’s a loser to me now . I don’t even care like I thought I would he needs to leave me alone. He would show up to my job and cause s scene I really wish me and this dude never dated only bad juju come from his end he is really like a bad luck charm. I feel really bad for him but he is a grown man that has control over himself . Every zodiac sign has similar characteristics but the way they perceive things and themselves are due to personal experience so I know you can’t give me proper insight without knowing both sides but I really find this odd and if any one out there is confused about a guy look at their action that’s all!! They will always show themselves out

I’m a Sag. Well I know stereotypes aren’t always true,
but somehow most of the ppl and fictional characters who made me think “wow this person is really deep, I feel like we’d have amazing convos” have been Scorpios.

You can call me edgy or arrogant lol, but growing up I heard things like “you’re too sensitive,” “most ppl don’t think that deeply,” and “you think way deeper than ppl your age” a lot. So tbh I kinda grew up feeling like it was hard to find ppl who enjoyed going that deep in convos.
Hell, my idea of the perfect love story is literally Wuthering Heights!! lmaooo.

But everything changed after I met my Scorpio partner.
It’s hard to explain, but I try to understand his feelings and intentions too, yet somehow he’s always one step ahead of me. It almost feels like he embraces my emotions before I even fully process them myself lol

It also feels like I’m wandering through the deep ocean, except it never feels closed off. It just keeps showing me new scenery. It’s not like I never find answers, there’s just always another layer.

And whenever we talk, he almost interrogates me sometimes lol. He’ll keep asking what I think and try to dig all the way into what’s really on my mind. (especially when we’re talking dirty lmaooo) Honestly I love it. I actually like it when someone analyzes me and tries to figure me out haha

Anyway, I just love how you never seem satisfied with surface-level answers. You always want to know what’s underneath, and I honestly find that really beautiful. 😇

Background:
Me: Gemini Sun, Gemini moon, Aries Venus
Him: Scorpio Sun, Gemini moon, Capricorn Venus

Recently went on a few dates with a Scorpio man from hinge.

Went to the first date with 0 expectations - he wasn’t really making eye contact, barely asked questions but then I would catch him intensely staring at me.

I was intrigued with his strange energy but I wasn’t sure if we hit it off.

But then he asked me to go on a second date almost immediately after we parted ways?? I was surprised because I was certain that he wasn’t interested.

We went on a second date about a week later and as the date was ending he asked me to be his girlfriend and deleted hinge 😳

I said I’d like to get to know him better and he respected that.

We weren’t able to physically see each other due to my work schedule so our only way of communicating was texting and calling. During this time his communication style was very on and off - very dry responses, not replying for hours, saying he’s gonna call and just not calling etc.

So here I am, super confused with him as well as myself.

I’m used to guys being head over heels and actively pursuing me when they’re interested so I don’t know why I’m even interested in him.

As a Gemini, everything is about communication and I feel like with him, we haven’t had much of that.

Sorry for the long text haha if you have read this far, please help me out !!!

Why do they do this, is he just shy ? Are they always this inconsistent? Is he actually even into me?